Yesterday I had the chance to deliver the sermon at church—if you don’t go to church or you are an atheist or we believe in different things, don’t run away, I am not going to get all preachy on you—not too much at least.
I started my talk by performing The Foxhole Manifesto by Jeffrey McDaniel, because i take poetry with me wherever I go—the point of my talk today was love, as it should be, was of an immoral woman willing to break out of cultural expectations and societal norms to express love & anoint the feet of her Lord with perfume, with her tears—and how she would have worn the smell of her love for days.
Whenever I speak, whenever I write, it is an outpouring of my heart, of what sits heavy on me—most times….sometimes i hold back, but I think it is easy to tell when that I do that. Not that my emotions are always right either—I am still learning and growing—still understanding love. I don’t know that we will ever understand it fully.
This weekend I read quite a few poems on ‘letting go.’ That too is part of love. I am still learning to let things go. Mary and Laurie and a few other friends gently reminded me of this in an email conversation—that I can’t be everything to everyone & that expectations have little place in the light of love. I needed to hear it—because I get frustrated at times, in an effort to make people happy—even if it means setting other people straight. Ha.
Maybe all this is just my confession to you that I don’t have it all together—if you do, well, keep believing that…smiles. I think a big part of love is being willing to tell someone when they are out of line or off kilter. And not just bullshitting them to make them feel better.
This is community. This is life. This is poetry.
What did you learn this week? What is rocking your world? What pissed you off—or made your day?
Grab a cup—let’s talk.
Laurie Kolp said:
I got a lot out of that conversation, too, and I thank you Brian and Mary for everything… and everyone else!
What did I learn this week? For now, all I can think of is my lower back which I pulled somehow… not exercizing, but getting breakfast ready. HA!
Björn Rudberg (brudberg) said:
That sounds like a very big cup of tea…smiles
brian miller said:
ouch….hope that heals up for you Laurie….note: cut the bacon off the animal before lifting…smiles…just kidding…thanks for being there last week and always checking in with me as well…i def appreciate that…
http://vivinfrance.wordpress.com said:
You have my sympathy, Laurie – sending you healing wishes.
Laurie Kolp said:
Thanks everyone. It’s a bit better today.
Björn Rudberg (brudberg) said:
It is a cross to bear to feel you to have to make everyone happy. That is one part of letting go. The other part is that correcting and telling that someone is acting out of order is really a way to show love — all cannot be sunshine.. We learn this in many places such as the workplace too..
brian miller said:
you are so right that all can not be sunshine…and at times i know i piss people off confronting behavior…my original intent was to talk about the comment we got on saturday and how we interact with one another…but i think i still did indirectly….
Björn Rudberg (brudberg) said:
I missed that comment.. but I saw the comments about it. I know some of the poems I have written have been a little controversial.. but so far no big controversy…
brian miller said:
oh i love controversial poems…i think we have to touch the hard issues that no one else is…
i dont think we need to ambush people in the comment box…and make generalities about large groups of people…stereotyping…or assuming all people in a certain group agree with us just because we are part of that group…or twist a conversation to an axe we have to grind…which is what was happening…
punnypalaver said:
Oh, I missed all of that. I take a hiatus from poetry for a month and now, dverse is filled with namecalling. 😦 If I can ever carve out time for myself again in the midst of this homeschooling business, I am going to write a poem or at least read some of this community’s latest offerings. I miss y’all!
brian miller said:
i wouldnt say filled…but there was one out of line comment…and i would rather deal with it than let it go on….that is all part of community….good to see you…hope that month was refreshing….
Maggie Grace said:
Guilty of being controversial.
brian miller said:
ha. me too…smiles.
punnypalaver said:
Oh, well, one comment hardly counts. That’s good. Y’all are still good folk! 🙂
brian miller said:
ha. yes, we try to keep it that way…smiles.
MarinaSofia said:
Poetry (to me) is very much like love: it’s all about opening up, sharing your most vulnerable side, not being afraid. You’ve put it beautifully.
This past week I’ve learnt that there is still a lot of rawness, of unsolved pain and regret from a love I had thought long-buried. I was surprised, overwhelmed by my emotional response and I wanted to put the lid firmly back on to that memory. But then I reflected that perhaps memories will always haunt us, that we are made up of our past encounters like layer upon layer gossamer. Scarcely perceptible, but always there.
brian miller said:
mmm…so true on how those feeling and memories stick with us you know….an something we thought we had handled before all of a sudden rears its ugly head…maybe in an interaction with another or just when we least expect it….i like the analogy of layers….
sounds like poetry in the making to me…smiles.
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX said:
Hi, Brian
Some years ago I was handed a book “A Course in Miracles”
(Foundation fo Inner Peace). After fewer than 5 minutes I handed it back, saying that this book would “lead me right to hell”…I had read several pages which were disturing.
Many years later (last week) Anna brought home a borrowed copy for herself. So far she has not gotten to read it yet–I won’t let go! Seemingly (so far) the “Miracle” book
accents many of my personal beliefs about the Universe, God, Jesus, Holy Spirit, other people, relationships, etc.
This book, 1,000 pages total, is like finding the “Mother-Lode” (for me, that is!), in my thinking, meditations, on what is important, and what ain’t.. So THAT is what’s “rocking my world” now…
Bro, you asked!
brian miller said:
nice…books often rock my world…and its interesting how our perspectives change too…originally you thought the book would lead you to bad places but now you are ready for it…i think that is so true of many things in life…we have to be at the point we are ready for it….
i will look that book up….
The Course of Our Seasons said:
I have always loved that story – her courage in the face of society norms and her selfless open heartedness in her love.
this time of year is always a time for reassessment and change – now dealing with an aged mom as her caregiver, my own health issues ( my god, I’m at that age!) and losing family and friends.
Just trying to be kind to myself and others – trying to not stress the small stuff and everything is small stuff – smiles.
I hope, Brian, you find ways to be kind to yourself – you do so much and really touch more lives than you can possibly know in ways you might not understand.
Hope that October is a blissful month for us all
– K
brian miller said:
october usually is a blissful month for me…i love fall…it is like a breathe of fresh air…a slowing down a bit….i feel you…when T’s mom came to the end of her days it was one of the harder times in my life…when my own mom broke her leg and we were helping her out….caring for a parent opens up emotions that we just dont have to deal with ohterwise….i like the breathing easy…
and it is one of my fav stories as well..smiles.
Loredana Donovan said:
Letting go … not an easy thing to do … but so freeing when it does happen. I like the saying, “Let go and let God.” Surrender and give up control and see what happens. Smiles 🙂
brian miller said:
surrender is huge…realizing that we can not control everything…HUGE…realizing we can not control others reactions HUGE…def…it also puts a lot of responsibility on us when we think we can…so breathing easy….rolling zen…smiles.
Madeleine Begun Kane said:
I’m an agnostic Jew. But I do have faith in the ability of Republicans to perpetually piss me off and inspire political limericks. 🙂
Here’s what I wrote as the U.S. government faces an imminent, disastrous, and unnecessary shutdown:
Open Limerick To “Speaker” Boehner
By Madeleine Begun Kane
Dear Boehner, while reading the news,
I’m bewildered — it tends to confuse:
Either somebody stole
Your Speakership role,
Or you gave it to Senator Cruz.
Open Limerick To “Speaker” Boehner
Grace said:
You do so much for the community Brian, here and around the blogger world ~
Don’t apologize when you don’t visit early or on time ~ We understand everyone is busy & we can’t expect you (or anyone) to be always there at every post ~ I like it when you lay down the rules as it should be ~ You protect the integrity of this community, as well as make it safe for members to share your voice and passion for poetry & words ~
Last week, I was so stressed out by work and by other people unreasonable expectations from me. I talked to my boss and took time off Friday to write and immerse myself in planning what I want to do in the coming months. I think its important to set breaks or time offs – work, writing, etc ~
Wishing you all Happy Monday ~
Victoria C. Slotto said:
I love this comment, Grace. Quite affirming.
Grace said:
I meant to reply that I don’t understand US politics – all these issues are over my head ~ Good limerick Mads ~
brian miller said:
hahahaha i have that faith as well…though i wont lie, the Dems are pissing me off just as much these days….i think my faith in our political process is what is waining….
its not easy laying down the rules at times…i know i tick people off when i confront things…i cant get around it though because as you said it keeps it safe for everyone….
good on you for taking the time off…i am about ready to do that myself just for a day to re-center….breaks are important…
Sharp Little Pencil said:
As one who tends to write poetry that pisses off everyone from time to time (I’m an equal opportunity offender), I could not agree more that my de facto party (I’m an Independent, leaning toward Socialist on matters of health care and infrastructure) has let me know. Even if the prez didn’t MEAN he was going to target Syria, he still threw me into a terrible depression. Just thinking about Barack Obama in a cowboy hat was too much for me, and I can laugh about it now, but… wink
brian miller said:
ha. i hear you amy…
Victoria C. Slotto said:
Thank you for such a thought-provoking post, Brian. My lesson of late has been about letting go, too. I’m going to be 70 in December. Yikes. And one of lessons of this time of life is just that. And you know, doesn’t that correspond to Autumn here in the No. Hemisphere? Right now there is something in my life that is beyond my control, (Oh, the horror) and I’m having to let go of the expectation I had. I confess that it isn’t that easy. One moment I’m at peace with it. The next, grrrr. And such is life. I wish I’d been a fly on the wall at your service yesterday. I bet it touched a lot of souls.
brian miller said:
it is not easy…in some ways we want life to be pretty well in the box…easy to handle and to roll with…but it just isnt…there are pieces that dont fit the puzzle….and it takes time to figure out what we do with them….and how to handle the emotions attached to them….
i had fun…any time i perform or speak i like to have fun…make it memorable…
it is twin day tomorrow…and my ‘twin’ for the day is female…so i will be in a long blond wig and make up….yeah my students will remember that one…smiles.
claudia said:
sorry…i’m a bit late… busy with reading a surprise for my little one…and my mouth is already a bit frayed…smiles… a very good point here bri… love is powerful enough to break barriers…no matter of which kind… i learned a lesson just today that pride and selfish expectations do build such barriers.. and it’s kinda humbling if you look in the mirror and…ugh… so.. now you all know another of my dark spots…smiles…. luckily it’s never too late to change…so… have to go back to miri and read on… will pop in a bit later again….
brian miller said:
selfish expectations build barriers…wondering if i need to get that tatooed on my arm so i can read it often…i struggle with expectations…setting them for myself..and even others….so true we can change anytime we need to….enjoy your reading C…that sounds like a great surprise…smiles…
margaret said:
What have I learned this week… I have learned that the grace of God within us must be nurtured and it must be something that is visible to others as well ! I fear most of us are lazy beings always looking to excuse ourselves… but not others. Yes, it’s been an interesting week – but one I think in which I have “grown” a bit…. We must let go of pride… of control at times.
brian miller said:
ouch…sting…ha…yes we can be lazy, that is for sure….and we can df make excuses for ourselves…while not giving grace to others…big thoughts there…its good to see your own growth though…i think our challenges and challenging weeks always force us to grow more…sometimes uncomfortably….
margaret said:
🙂 My kids are back in “Faith Formation” and some huge topics we have been discussing. They love it when I “mess” up, but it is good for them to see me make things right. Then they know I have set the bar…
ds said:
She has always been one of my favorite Biblical characters (no, I am not a religious person). This week I have been learning to fall; or rather, to fall and keep going, one of the many many lessons of yoga (and life). Like Grace, i’ve hit a rough patch at work & will be taking time off to “retreat”. I am in the position of having to defend myself and it is strange…expectations are gadflies…have you noticed that they are always “imposed” never “given”? That’s a signal. I am glad that you were able to work through your difficulty. Letting go (“falling”) is one of the hardest things we must do,and we must alas do it over and over and over again. For me, it helps to be upside down. Literally. And these challenges remind us that we are alive, such a precious commodity that is. Be well.
brian miller said:
good on you for recognizing that time you need of retreat…ugh on having to defend yourself….and def true on imposed not given…i have been in that position before…i think upside down shakes up our very comfortable world in ways it forces us to grow you know…and hopefully on the back side we are better for it….travel light ds…
georgeplace2013/Debi Swim said:
Ack, lessons. They aren’t much fun until much later. I guess I’m learning how to show a particular person a little grace when they are acting like a child. I wanted to just cold shoulder her this morning until she yelled uncle but instead, I calmed down, called her later and gave her a graceful way out of the corner she’d painted herself into.
I feel pretty good about it right now – hope I really did learn it for next time : )
brian miller said:
smiles..human relationships…i think we will be learning those until the end of our days….and good on you for giving her a bit of grace later on…ha…and so true on remembering those lessons next time…
alan1704 said:
Love is the only language that means anything and all we can do is speak honestly in love and show grace. grace when we make mistakes and grace to others when they make mistakes. You are a blessing Brian, may you honesty and love be richly rewarded. As it says in the greatest poem ever written-
“When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.
Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.”
brian miller said:
like puzzling reflections in a mirror…ha…i think you nailed that…the world gets a lot more complex when we grow up, now doesnt it….understanding our own limitations…and who we are not, is huge…smiles…
aprille said:
What a moving post this is and all it has elicited already.
First time I made it here on a Monday.
I’m in a tizz after yesterday when I exploded about the lurkers to my site. Suddenly it became too much and made me so insecure that, as dear wise Margaret put it, I went over the top and spoke too strongly. Maybe I did and maybe I didn’t. Both the fact and my reaction to it scare me equally.
On a lighter note: For me hands are the expression of love, and the Mary Magdalena story fits right into that. On my post today I happened to have a close-up of my husband’s hands. When I think how these have worked to take care of us over they years, I become weak with gratitude.
All in all a very emotional weekend poetrywise.
brian miller said:
this made me smile….weak with gratitude…hands are so evocative..
i totally missed your explosion aprille…i am a bit sad now…smiles…
when we are insecure…or when we are passionate about something it becomes easy to get there…
ha. i think you know i have over reacted myself at times…
pandamoniumcat said:
Great post Brian, I think being true to yourself is the hardest thing to accomplish and it’s natural to hold back, emotions can get so strong at times…I think it may be an internal safety mechanism. Yet honest writing or speaking I think is what really engages people, and it is needed more than ever today. Indeed my husband and I were only talking about honesty in writing, music and art last night…the importance of it and how as a viewer or listener you feel it right away.
I understand the trying to be everything to everyone too! I get swept up in the trying to make everyone happy and then find myself dealing with the anxiety when I realise it’s an impossible task. Learning to say no and letting go is a hard one…and found myself entering this domain yet again this week. I’ve also found that my disorganised self has somehow become organised through default…my son is on holidays so this has thrown my timetable off kilter…and I never would have thought a timetable…even a mysteriously appearing one would be so important to my wellbeing. Ha ha …If only we could control all things but then how boring would that be!! Ah well life we just muddle through as best we can. 🙂
brian miller said:
learning to say no…something i am def re-learning right now…what i say no to allows me to say yes to things that are more important you know….enjoy that holiday with your son…that is awesome….
howanxious said:
Love- I am always amazed by the immensity of this word. Thank you for sharing your words. They resonated with me.
This past week, I learnt to let the bygones by bygones. I would have to rid myself of the past, in order to find the path to the future. Sometimes you dwell so much in the moments that have departed, you forget that there is this moment right now which you are losing in its wake. I have come to find that lesson… I hope I work on it as well.
brian miller said:
mmm that one is def a big one…letting go of the past…because we can not change it…and we are not yet in the future but now we are making decisions that will affect it….
Maggie Grace said:
Sometimes…like with today’s challenge…I feel like I’m just writing a conversation or story in a way that looks like poetry. I don’t know if it’s right or acceptable. But I had only one thing on my mind this week. For once it’s happy. Maybe that’s the issue. I don’t typically write about happy. Thank you for asking about it.
brian miller said:
ha. right and acceptable…i dont know that i have used those with poetry…i struggle when poetry is put in a box honestly….learning to write different emotions is cool…i was saying elsewhere that when i first started writing it all tended to be happy…and then i became comfortable with my full range of emotions in writing….
Maggie Grace said:
Silly me. Just realized this is about the conversation…not writing. I learned compromise is possible over time even when one person has been strongminded and steadfast against change. My husband opened his mind to help make my life more fulfilling. Huge to me.
brian miller said:
that is very cool…i hope you bring that poem to OLN tomorrow….
Sharp Little Pencil said:
On Sunday, I practiced saying the letter S until it was not coming out with a lisp, thx to new denture. I failed miserably. I had to remember one of my mantras, Patience. Breathe in and breathe out and try again. This applies to my whole life, but it was an ABC Sunday, you know, the S was in control!
brian miller said:
hey good for you working on saying the tough letter through that new mouth…and you know it will get easier…and i know its got to feel better as well…or it will…good to see you ma’am…smiles.
Debbie Dawnslight said:
Hi Brian and the rest of the drinking poets at the pub!
First of all, LOVED the foxhole manifesto!!! Thank you.
I too only saw and read responses after the fact. From the little of you that i got to know overtime, it was a necessaty.
Letting go isn’t easy, but you must.
My husband does a lot of different things and somethimes gets down that nothing is perfect. Nothing can nor should be perfect… it’s ok to let go. It’s ok to learn from those things that don’t exactly line up with expectations.
I hope I’m making sense…
Please note it’s nearly 2am and i’m a bit blind here typing into the phone. Sorry for spelling mistakes…
🙂
Debbie Dawnslight said:
Oh… i should add that personaly speaking – i live for imperfections.. they are si interestimg.
So… let go !
brian miller said:
ha. what dedication…2 am…smiles…nothing is perfect…and i live for imperfections esp in others…i love those that no one else will..yet demand perfection of myself….its me i need to give more grace too…for sure…
Debbie Dawnslight said:
Here is a perfect poem filled with imper…, well…. it is E.E. Cummings…
yes is a pleasant country:
yes is a pleasant country:
if’s wintry
(my lovely)
let’s open the year
both is the very weather
(not either)
my treasure,
when violets appear
love is a deeper season
than reason;
my sweet one
(and april’s where we’re)
Kathy B. said:
pleasant indeed!
brian miller said:
nice…i love cummings….he taught me a bit of word play and line break…
ds said:
thanks for sharing this. i love cummings, too. “love is a deeper season/than reason” One to keep in the back pocket.
Kathy B. said:
What did I learn…hm, interesting question. Two grad students told me it was easier to sketch ideas aloud than commit them to the page, which carries with it an imagined critical readership. I realized that for my current (textbooky) writing project, writing it to “you” (an imagined student/colleague curious about the stuff I’m poring over) would be more fun than writing for whatever hostile/bored critic I’d had in mind. The audiences we carry in our minds are such impediments.
brian miller said:
mmm good thought…i dont know that i think necessarily of an audience when i write….textbook writing would be hard for me surely….
Kathy B. said:
it’s kind of like sermons surely? here’s some facts to think about and my ideas on how to think about them, see if they help. (tho, i could not give a sermon! i would be wracked! kudos to you!)
brian miller said:
ha. i guess in a way it is like that…never really thought of it that way….
http://vivinfrance.wordpress.com said:
A wise thought. I will bear it in mind.
Rallentanda said:
A good thing that happened yesterday. I met a young German man ( early 20s )who sorted my ticket at the travel agency He was charming intelligent and I noticed he used the word ‘whilst’ which is very unusual for anyone under 50. I asked him where he had gone to school.? As it turned out he had attended the top private school here in Oz. My partner said ” Well son if you want a promotion, dumbing down is really important here… you know that don’t you, so best get rid of the ‘whilst’. ” His two unfriendly female colleagues snarled at their desks as we all fell about laughing. Of course he knew !
I suppose my poems have an acerbic edge but it is a perception of life based on personal experience. Living in a tough culture defines you and swallowing bitter pills become easy when it is washed down with lashings of humour!
brian miller said:
ha. lashings of humor…i would love to visit your country some time…
i think we all give back what we are given…and our poems come through the lens
of our lives…
Mary said:
Nice post, Brian! I would have liked to have heard you preach. And yes, some things you have to let go of, as you can’t be all things to everybody. Today I spent from grandchildren, and tonight dinner with daughter and grandchildren and poetry was on the back burner…..thus my late appearance here as well. (Sorry about that…it has been a long day.) And no poem yet for OLN tomorrow. Sigh. But that’s the way it rolls sometime. And we just have to cut ourself slack for being human and not getting all done that we want and sometimes disappointing others (or ourselves). I think we have to keep remembering that tomorrow is another day!
brian miller said:
it does…but you know what…in all that time you spent with family i am sure there is poem…i think we get it backwards at time and make life about poetry when poetry should be an out pouring of our lives you know….
Mary said:
I DO agree with you there, Brian. Poetry definitely SHOULD be an out pouring of our lives.
brian miller said:
alright, see you manana poets for OLN …and i will swing through in the AM….
Akila said:
oh! i wonder how you read my mind!!and well yep I do find my way of balance in poetry. Not that it is picture perfect but neither is life nor I am. But well kind of helps me regaining senses. I realised that as we grow the so called “childishness” grows and the irony is that it is never seen in kids and if seen, it is brushed aside as kiddish. But for adults the consequences are larger, stretching beyond boundaries, sometimes! well hope remains that with time it dies!I had kind of shared it on the poem for MTB last week. Ha! felt a lot better – Poetry heals!!
brian miller said:
poetry does heal, i believe that….and def hope remains…..there are plenty of times after sharing i feel so much better…esp when the community gathers round…
ramblingsfromamum said:
I read this – I read the comments. I want to THANK YOU BRIAN from the bottom of my heart, for today, this beautiful soul sent me a message asking if I am alright because I hadn’t been around for a couple of days. With all the people that we meet in this world – how many take the time to ask or to bother. Because I write usually once or twice a day, I was obviously missed. For that I am so grateful. I have never suffered with anything my entire life, now though I have been having a lot of anxiety and breathing issues because of it. My elderly parents, my change in career which I don’t know when I shall or can begin, my daughter – IF I didn’t have poetry or writing to keep me balanced – I don’t know where I would be right now. As far as my writing goes, I am still on my L Plates, so much I have learned from so many brilliant people in The Pub. I write like a Sous Chef not like a Head Chef , my emotions are poured into what ever comes to mind. Sometimes it’s crap, sometimes I walk away smiling with what I have done, but I shall persist – I am but human and if what I write is not liked – that shall not stop me – Brian again – thank you so very much for caring, for writing as you do, for being supportive of everyone here. I thank you all. I hope I haven’t ranted on too much – forgive me if I have.
brian miller said:
smiles…not at all…i you were missed….and what better to serve up than our emotions or whatever we have…i am sorry you are going through the anxiety…that is some nasty stuff….
ramblingsfromamum said:
thank you Brian – yes it’s not pleasant, hopefully it will pass. You are very special & caring human being..my emotions will be served up hopefully more as the days go on.I am not a religious person but bless you Brian.
shanyns said:
Brian – if you have time you should listen to my Pastor from Save The Cowboy – I think you and he would enjoy each other’s way with words.
This week has been one of joy, frustration and some really pissed off moments. There is poetry in it all, and if I have learned one thing it is not to neglect my craft with word or lens no matter how crappy or joy filled the moments get. They are akin to constant prayer – pray always, think poetically always and find a shot. Don’t let a day go by without an abundance of those. 🙂 (I should make that into a poem maybe?)
brian miller said:
smiles…oh all those things make great fertilizer for poetry…and not just to make chicken salad out of chicken poop…ha. yeah i think you have a poem there…smiles….
shanyns said:
Smiles will work on that.
ninotaziz said:
Hi Brian, and everyone at The Pub,
Life has been a roller-coaster for me in the last few months, I am never quite sure whether I am coming or going…
One thing for sure, I am facing major life changing decisions. Leaving my job to pursue my real life passion WAS scary. But my faith is strong, and friends, especially friends from the poetry blogosphere, help me get through my pitter patters.
I have no idea whether my love for Malaysian legends will have a major audience here…whole generations of young Malaysians have grown up without any introduction to them at all. Making people happy through Hikayat is not an option. But at the very least, I aim to enrich lives through Malaysian legends.
Does that help, Brian?
Lesson for the week? Make sure bathrooms have handles for the elderly.
ninotaziz said:
Just read your interview Brian at PU. WOW!
Susan said:
This week I learned the kinds of questions writers ask editors and agents because I attended the Barrelhouse Conversations & Connections Conference here in Philadelphia. It was my first time at such a gathering. I also took a poem to speed dating with an editor. Such an eye-opener! And a few new oldies like me–but most in MFA creative writing programs–and all so puppy-like hopeful. Scarey and beautiful. We all gotta be ourselves, find our topics and voices and put teeth in our lines. Gotta love it fiercely and/or hone in on the home team and relax. I learned something like that.
And here in this blog conversation I learn a lot more. May we all pamper our passion and refuse to burn out, no matter how many wicks are on our candles. I think I’ll blog this at Susan Continued …
Thanks, Brian. Loved your interview with Sherry at PU.