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Good evening, it’s Amaya Engleking here tending bar and I want to know before we sit around all night guzzling Oktoberfest lager and waxing poetic about leaves, tell me: What’s your name?
I’m in the season of life in which I have several lists of potential baby names and have spent countless sleepless nights trying to come up with the most melodic and meaningful pair of names to name an unborn child. I know I’m not alone when I say we protectors of the next generation put a lot of care and consideration into the task of naming someone, even a pet! We hope that our progeny (or precious creatures) will live up to their names, or perhaps even more accurately, the essences of the names will define their characters. In China, many families will even consult experts on Taoist cosmology and the classic, I Ching, to assure their babies are named according to their destinies.
My own first name carries various origins and meanings from around the globe. Am I living up to my destiny?
Japanese = ‘night rain’
Sanskrit = ‘without illusion’
Hopi = ‘dispeller of evil’
Basque = ‘the end’
I like to have a good cry under the stars every so often, does that count?
Let’s look at Walt Whitman. Walter means ‘warrior.’ (It’s astounding how many traditionally male names are derived from a language’s word for ‘warrior’ or ‘ruler.’ Do parents really want that ferocity and tyranny for their sons or is it more of a warrior-against-your-inner-demons or ruler-of-your-own-ego-and-temptations kind of a hope?) Anyway, I’m inspired by Whitman’s take on the warrior:
O maidens and young men I love and that love me,
What you ask of my days those the strangest and sudden your talking recalls,
Soldier alert I arrive after a long march cover’d with sweat and dust,
In the nick of time I come, plunge in the fight, loudly shout in the rush of successful charge,
Enter the captur’d works—yet lo, like a swift running river they fade,
Pass and are gone they fade—I dwell not on soldiers’ perils or soldiers’ joys,
(Both I remember well—many of the hardships, few the joys, yet I was content.)
But in silence, in dreams’ projections,
While the world of gain and appearance and mirth goes on,
So soon what is over forgotten, and waves wash the imprints off the sand,
With hinged knees returning I enter the doors, (while for you up there,
Whoever you are, follow without noise and be of strong heart.)
Bearing the bandages, water and sponge,
Straight and swift to my wounded I go,
Where they lie on the ground after the battle brought in,
Where their priceless blood reddens the grass, the ground,
Or to the rows of the hospital tent, or under the roof’d hospital,
To the long rows of cots up and down each side I return,
To each and all one after another I draw near, not one do I miss,
An attendant follows holding a tray, he carries a refuse pail,
Soon to be fill’d with clotted rags and blood, emptied, and fill’d again.
I onward go, I stop,
With hinged knees and steady hand to dress wounds,
I am firm with each, the pangs are sharp yet unavoidable,
One turns to me his appealing eyes—poor boy! I never knew you,
Yet I think I could not refuse this moment to die for you, if that would save you.
From ‘The Wound-Dresser’
https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/53027/the-wound-dresser
And then there’s Margaret Walker with the most perfect surname for us contemplatives.
Traveller take heed for journeys undertaken in the dark of the year. Go in the bright blaze of Autumn’s equinox. Carry protection against ravages of a sun-robber, a vandal, a thief. Cross no bright expanse of water in the full of the moon. Choose no dangerous summer nights; no heavy tempting hours of spring; October journeys are safest, brightest, and best.
From ‘October Journey’
https://www.inspirationalstories.com/poems/october-journey-margaret-walker-poems/
So tonight let’s write poetry about the meaning of our names. Look at your given name, a chosen alias, a middle name, family name, or maiden name and write an open-form poem of any length about it’s meaning. You don’t have to say what the name is but you’re free to do so in a subscript. I want to see more of an imaginative poem about the warrior (if you are a Walter or most males:) the one who walks (if you are Margaret Walker) or in my poem, say, the apocalypse. Just have fun with this and look up multiple origins to maybe learn something new about yourself.
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Hey you! What’s your name and what can I get for you?
My name is Bearwarrior of honor and light, can I have a glass of water please… (yes one of my name means warrior too).
Are you sure you don’t want to satisfy the bear in you with some good aged mead right about now? Sure, coming right up.
🙂 I thought the name would be ferocious enough to need some cooling.
Okay then, iced water it is:)
I don’t know about everyone else, but I feel kind of a rush right now when the doors open, so to speak. Maybe it’s because I just finished my poem for this prompt, like, seconds before we opened up, and also kids are napping:) I’m going to celebrate with chocolate cake and your poems. Cake’s on the bar if anyone wants to indulge.
Good evening from the UK. I’ve had my name for such a long time I can’t imagine having any other, although when I was much younger, I dreamed of choosing a different name. I quite like being called Nanny by my grandson, though! 🙂 I’m looking forward to reading what everyone comes up with for this excellent prompt. Thank you for hosting Amaya.
Hi Kim, thanks for being here. Yes, I used to love pretending I had all sorts of names. That’s why it was fun to study abroad and actually choose a different name in another language for myself. Then it became a hobby wherever I traveled. I’d pour through dictionaries of languages I didn’t know and collect names for myself, sometimes even asking new friends to name me. And I’m glad you like what your grandson calls you. My uncle didn’t like “Grandpa” because it made him feel prematurely old so he has his grandkids call him “Maestro.” 🏇 (That’s him on his high horse!)
🙂
We just celebrated our Canadian Thanksgiving over the long weekend, so filled with gratitude and so much food, right now. Thanks for hosting Amaya and looking forward to knowing more of you all!
Happy Thanksgiving, Grace (and Dwight and Mish and all our Canadian friends!) Thanks for being with us post-feast.
Hi, Chris Black calling from Wexford Ireland Christopher was the patron saint of motorists until he was demoted I also was christened The Poet’s Poet. I’ll have a pint of your best lager thank you.
Chris! Good to have you here and since we know you won’t be designated driver, here’s our finest Bavarian Märzen – malty and spicy.
Hi, I’m V.J. – yep, that’s it. Poem explains it all. It’s hot here today in Ontario – could use a cold lemonade.
Yes, I see now. Well, initials can be easy to remember. Especially for that adorable little grandbaby!
It’s funny cause I just researched the meaning of my name earlier. I have 3 first name but the one I use often is Hafsa, which means young lioness.
Well cheers to some fortuitous synchronicity in the house!
Had to give this one some thought…think I finally got it covered.
Loved it.
thank you
Hi, I’m Glenn.. There is quite a tale about how I ended up with that name (which is what I wrote about). My names are all from the British Isles, but it turns out I am actually Italian/Greek. Thanks for hosting. I’ll have a diet Coke, please. ,And a piece of that chocolate cake.
Hey Glenn (Alexis) that was a fascinating tale. My name too is from several languages that are far from my mother tongue, but the cultural appropriation police haven’t infiltrated this pub. Here are your refreshments…
Hello, my name is Michelle, known in the pub as “Mish”. There is only ever been one person that called me “Mish” outside of online poetry and blogging, and that was my ex father-in-law. I always liked it. In 1st grade, our teacher was overwhelmed by the fact that there were 4 Michelles in the class, so I became “Shelley” through elementary school. The children I work with call me “Chelle”, being that most of them are barely two.
Well that is that! Great prompt, Amaya 🙂
I’ll have a lemonade, lots of ice. Our room was 80 degrees today, 98 with the humidex outside.
And I think it’s so clever, “Mishunderstood.” How sweet to work with two year olds. But how do you do it?! Mine drives me bonkers and she’s not part of a roomful of tots. Ok, lemonade for you and I’ll join you with that. Mid 80s here and said toddler was in corduroys. “I’ll do it myself, Mama!”
Hi, Amaya. I loved this prompt. And I LOVE all the things your name can mean. How wonderful. Mine is slightly less interesting, but I have always embraced the “preposition” of it all.
My birth certificate reads DeLinda JoAnne Miller. My parents called me “Linda Jo,” until I turned 2 and decided they should call me “DeDe.” I was DeDe until about sophomore year of high school. My brother called me De (I called him “T”), and it stuck. Anybody who calls me DeDe is somebody who knew me before about 1986. 😉
I can’t wait to come back (work writing deadline right now, but shall return) and read about everybody’s names. What a fun prompt.
Oh my gosh, “D” and “T” has Norman Rockwell written all over it. I’m glad you made it to the pub tonight, DeYour poem was a delight, as usual:)
PS: I’d love a giant slice of that cyber chocolate cake. I’m off sugar again. Dammit.
So cyber it is 🍰
hi Amaya, your name has some lovely meanings in those different tongues. what a fabulous prompt to write and read on! giving my name a thought before I write.
Looking forward to it!
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No problem and happy thanksgiving!
I am the fair-haired spear-wielding son of he who is beloved of Jehovah. Oh, and also, I’m the fourth of this name, to minimize confusion.
(I feel like I should throw in “breaker of chains” and “the unburnt” for some reason…)
I’m sure someone, somewhere is named for those things. Glad you made it, Barry.
Joining in today!
Glad you made it, Linda. Cake’s long gone, but taps still flowin’ 🙂
I was named by a piece of Junk Mail that came to my letter box at work years ago before I had learned not to hate myself for being transgender. There it was, “Lona”
I had never heard it before, a beautiful feminine name. It just felt like me, and made me smile, so it has been in my heart ever since. In retrospect I think it was a grace to have a found name. It softened my slef -loating to some degree. I then later came across “Lona Hessel” a fictional character in one of Ibsen’s lesser known but very wonderful (and actually hilarious) play called “Pillars of Society.” She was a strong independent witty voice who spoke truth to power and is one of the few Ibsen main female characters who would not be either oppressed or terrifying. This play actually was an Ibsen play that did not end in a suicide of some sort. I loved her, and the bond to this name grew. Yesterday in researching for this prompt I realized I had never actually looked up the meaning of this prompt. In English, Lona means “Solitary.” This fits, and the truth in it and the ability to love and understand myself even when so much of my little corner of the world cannot do so binds me close to this name I have taken. Thank you Amaya. A lovely prompt, and an important one for me. I will just sit over in this corner, in solitude, not loneliness, with a nice big glass of that glow I get from the dVerse crowd. Won’t be able to be on the poetry trail much until my road trip this weekend, but I am looking forward to it. “When something is important to you, you care what it is called. Thank You, Lona.
Yay, so happy you made it this week, Lona. This story behind your name, how it sought you out like a gift from the most high, warms my heart. I once knew an Alona from Israel but I too, before you, had never heard your name before. I’m so glad to now know you:) And I have to tell you I searched for your end quote because it is so wonderful and reminds me of an earlier poem of mine, “Ragdoll.” But now I see as Google brought me to the one and only Lona Gynt that you were quoting your own poem. Off to read now. Stay seated, I’ll come to you.
Evening, Poets! Thanks, Amaya, for this deep prompt! Looking forward to seeing everyone on the poetry trail! How about a Burgundy? 😉
You are ‘free’ to drink as you wish. We learned the meaning of your name by Mr. Hubeny’s poem. I told him both my mother’s grandfathers had your name. He wasn’t surprised saying it used to be so common. One hardly ever hears that name in kids anymore. Cheers!
🙂 Thank you, Amaya!
Thanks, Amaya,
I am late to to the pub and late to publish. Other commitments keep me from devoting more time to writing, but this prompt was easy for me. I will eventually read everyone’s poem and respond, even if it takes me till Sunday!
Sometimes it takes me a week to catch up on reading. Glad you made it before last call!
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YOUR NAME IS YOUR HANDLE. SOME HAVE MORE THAN ONE NAME, DEPENDING ON WHAT THEY ARE DOING AT THE TIME!