Some years ago, my daughter gave me the book The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. I found it a fascinating and instructive read. I skimmed back through the book about a week ago, paying particular attention to passages I’d underlined and notes I’d written in the margins. For example:
- “We can change the lens through which we view everything. This is a choice we can make.”
- “Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.” Voltaire
- About raising little ones: “ The days are long, but the years are short.” PERSONAL NOTE: I like this statement a lot better than the one I heard at the grocery store when my two toddlers (born just 20 months apart and now 44 and 46 years old) were both having temper tantrums at the check-out counter. A well-meaning elderly lady tapped me on the shoulder and said, “Appreciate them now. They grow up so fast.” I remember wanting to say, “Here lady, you take them and appreciate them now!”
- “You don’t have to be good at everything.” (Confession: I am NOT good at singing. In fact, I can’t carry a tune. Not even when singing Happy Birthday!)
- “People actually prefer that you buy wedding gifts off their registry.” (This was an eye opener as I always wrack my brain to think of unique gifts! This statement can also apply to Amazon lists people now create for holidays.)
- “No deposit, no return.” (Think about this one for a bit.)
- Robert Frost: “The best way out is always through.” (Especially applicable in these days before our U.S. election.)
So how about it? These are literally darker days because daylight savings time ended this past weekend in the U.S. Some would say these are darker times because they’re filled with the threat of and depressing news about Covid. They’re filled with pre-election insanity, divisiveness, climate crisis and environmental worries, and whatever else might be assailing us at the moment. So how about sitting down and creating a little happiness project of our own? You’ve got it: the word for our quadrille today is happiness. Or any form of the word (not synonym) as in happy, happier, happiest. Maybe verbify it and happy somebody! Or how about a happylicious ice cream cone as a treat? Any way you look at it, your poem of exactly 44 words, sans title, must include the word happiness or a form of the word. This will be our dVerse Happiness Project!
And just to put a smile on your face, to get you in the mood, I’ll share some fun photos I’ve taken and one video I think you’ll chuckle at.



The love of music really does run in our family! Even with Percy!
NEW TO DVERSE? NEED TO BE REFRESHED ON THE RULES?
HERE’S WHAT WE DO:
- Write a quadrille (a poem of EXACTLY 44 words, not including the title) AND include the word “happiness” or a form of the word within the body of the poem. A synonym for happiness does not fulfill the prompt. It must be the word, or a form of the word like happy, happier, happiest.
- Post the poem to your blog AND add the exact URL for your poem to Mr. Linky below.
- REMEMBER to either TAG dVerse in your post, or include a link at the end of your poem that leads readers back to dVerse (https://dversepoets.com).
- If there is no Tag or link back to dVerse, I will gently remind you to add it or remove your post from Mr. Linky. Sorry to be so harsh…..but this is just part of the requirements AND it will bring you more readers and lead more folks to dVerse so they can participate as well!
Welcome to the dVerse Happiness Project!!! Hoping you’ll join us tonight and include some form of the word happiness in your post.
It’s a BLUSTERY day in Boston! We bundled up for our walk and literally were blown along the sidewalk.
Pub is open….what libation can I get you? I’m offering little paper umbrellas to cheer up your drinks tonight! 🙂
Hi Lillian and thank you for hosting- love the howling dog! So cute… Happiness is a wonderful topic.
That’s our Percy! He’s hilarious….gets into a lot of mischief too we’re told. My son was getting read to make pizza for his family, turned around to get the pound of Italian sausage on the counter to cook….GONE! And Percy sitting there licking his chops! 🙂
Did I make you smile? Happiness is….
Yes, you did!
Good evening from North Norfolk! Thank you, Lill, for hosting and for such a cheerful prompt! I hope all my American friends are not feeling too nervous about tomorrow. I’ll admit I’m nervous about the second lockdown over here, which starts on Thursday. We really do need a it of happiness at the moment.
Yes….election night jitters arrived a week ago. We shall be up late in front of our television tomorrow night….praying! I read about your lockdown….and about 15 minutes ago, governor of Massachusetts announced stay-at-home 10 PM to 5 AM orders; plus new restrictions on restaurants, etc….indoor gatherings limited to 10 people. Quite frightening….so a happiness project is just the ticket to get our minds thinking a bit more positively! 🙂
Hi Kim, your blog wouldn’t let me post a comment. I just wanted to say that it was the opening lines that struck me most, the quiet industry of those spores beneath the leaves. Happiness in a job well done.
Hi Jane! Sorry about you not being able to post – that’s happened to me a few times on other blogs – not yours though. There’s a lot of happiness in our garden at the moment, where we have all sorts going on.
It’s probably a glitch that will go away.
I think you’re right to see happiness as achievement, doing things right. It isn’t something that only one person can have. How can we be happy knowing that so many people, things, planets are suffering? I know I can’t. Only in brief flashes.
Hello all… November has brought it’s best of wind and gloom. I needed a happy word to take me through such a dark beginning.
Glad to oblige with a dVerse Happiness Project! Bright and sunny in Boston….but crazy crazy winds. We had to cut our walk short and we were literally being blown along the sidewalk!
Hi Lillian, thank you for the prompt and your poem which you posted earlier, which inspired mine! I like your quote about appreciating children when they are young…I can really appreciate (sorry) this because I am locked down with my two youngsters at home and it is challenging. I love them to bits, and my preschooler is just coming out of babyhood so I’m both sad and relieved at the same time!
Ah those preschool years! They get feisty as they strike out on their own a bit…and they also can do such silly things too! 🙂 Glad to see you here, Ingrid.
Great word Lillian. I am hoping it applies when the sun comes up on Wednesday here in my USA. I felt the need to post not only a Quadrille, but also, at this critical crossroad, to include a “call to action” for my fellow Americans — really, for anyone who embraces truth and human dignity.
I’m right there with you, Rob! We’re having tomato soup and grilled cheese for supper tomorrow night….I suggested we needed some “comfort food” to quiet our nerves. Then at about 11 PM, we’re going celebratory with Ruffle potato chips and George’s French Onion Dip (which we literally ONLY have during the Super Bowl). We figure if we’re in a celebratory mood with yummy snacks, it will be a sign of GOOD things to come. Good to see you here tonight! A happiness project is what we can all use right now 🙂
Hello Lillian and All. Great prompt that inspired both a poem and a collage from me. It’s cold and sunny today. Yesterday was gusting winds and sputtering pieces of snow most of the day. I’m all set on a drink today, sipping hot coffee.
mmmm hot coffee is always good. I like to inhale it in the morning…even before I begin to sip and enjoy! Glad to see you here today for our happiness project! 🙂
Thanks Lillian.
Hi Lillian, and everyone. Thank you for hosting, Lillian. It’s cold and blustery here, too, and I skipped my usual walk this morning. I’m feeling anxious, but trying to not let it paralyze me. That is so funny that you said that about grilled cheese and tomato soup. I was thinking of maybe making that, too, tomorrow night.
It’s a night when I think we’ll all need some comfort food….at least at the beginning. I’m really hoping the ruffles potato chips and french onion dip usher in a cause for celebration! 🙂 I figured a happiness project would be a good start 🙂
I won’t be eating that late, but I hope you’re right. We had a special snack-type meal with daughter and her husband for the last election. . .so I really don’t want to do that.
Thank you for hosting us! I don’t tend to write about happiness… but I manged it in a wistful kind of a way!
Wistful happiness is good. I suppose we could also use the word in writing about its absence?
Good to see you here today!
That was precious!! Definitely playing when my work day is done
Didn’t you just love the dog singing???? Percy is one hilarious grand-dog!
Absolutely adorable!!
Oh Lillian thank you!
You have made my heart smile, about time we all shed off the darkness and welcome love and light into our lives with shafts of happiness like your gorgeous photos and sweet video, and some random acts of kindness 🙂
I am always happy to hand out smiles….and lord knows we need them right now in these challenging times! I just couldn’t resist posting the video of Percy singing…hilarious, right?
absolutely hilarious … but did you really photograph all those dogs on a seat, surely it was photoshopped? And the grandies in the leaves, super cute can’t imagine how many leaves there were 🙂
Actually the 5 dogs on a bench is not photo shopped at all. Last week on our walk along the Esplanade (walk way/park along the Charles River) we came upon this dog walker and he was putting each one of his 5 dogs up on the bench, telling them to stay. We couldn’t believe it. They did! And then he whipped out a very good camera and was trying to keep their eyes on him for his photos. The trouble was so many people had stopped to get the photo with their phones that they were often looking at other people instead of him. I LOVE the photo! 🙂
lol that’s a priceless story! Well trained dogs but still flaunting their independence … and certainly not camera shy, made my day 🙂
A great prompt Lillian… just what we need!
Always happy to supply a little happiness in these challenging times! Did you watch the video of Percy singing? Guaranteed to bring a chuckle!
Yes… how funny!! That will make us all smile!
Hi Lillian. Great prompt, I know I need a happiness project. Thanks for the oppertunity to write something light and airy.
I figure we can all use a little happiness in these challenging times! Why not perk each other up a little?
I’m so glad we got a cheerful word tonight. I need some light and happiness at the moment. Thanks, Lill.
Always happy to hand out some good cheer and smiles. I figured we could all use a happiness project right now! 🙂 Glad to see you here, Sarah.
I read The Happiness Project, too, a few years ago. It’s a helpful and entertaining book. 😀
I really enjoyed the book. And given these challenging times, I figured we’d do a happiness project here at dVerse! It seems folks are enjoying it. Did you watch the video of Percy? It really is a chuckle!
I just did, and you’re right! I liked all of the photos, too. hahaha
Stepping away from the pub for just a few minutes…..keep the happiness flowing!
Great post Lillian, and what an artistic bunch you have.
LOL….even our grand-dog! 🙂 Quite the singer/howler Percy is! 🙂 Nice to see you here, Peter.
Thanks for the prompt Lillian! This was a fun, happy write!!
Perfect. I figured a happiness project would be enjoyed by dVerse folks tonight. We are definitely living through challenging times!
Lillian,
I too read that book and even listened to Gretchen’s podcast for some time. I love the self-portrait. Kid art is always so charmingly funny and you even have a singing dog. You delivered on bringing the light-hearted mood to this day’s prompt.
I will see what sunshine I can deliver in return.
Take care, stay warm.
Ali
So glad you enjoy the prompt and the photos/video. I figure a happiness project in these challenging times would be appreciated by dVerse folks. It appears it’s good timing.
I enjoyed the book very much….didn’t ever listen to the podcast. As you can see from my notes mentioned above, I found a lot of practical hints in the book. These are just a few of the underlinings and notes I scribbled on the pages.
I have been finding so much joy in the beautiful trees as they change color. This was my inspiration to write about happiness today. We always have a choice in finding joy. Thanks for the reminder.
Happiness? Happiness, you say? OK; will try, but, um…
I mean, it’s just a word, eh?
Thanks for hosting, Lillian.
Hmmm….I’d say it’s a state of mind. 🙂 Give it a go….looking forward to what you write.
Lil bit of lolsob for the moment.
So glad you’re here! 🙂
Okay folks…..my eyes are glazing over here with so much happiness. You’ve really created a happiness project at the pub tonight.
But — I must leave for the night. Will return early in AM with hot stong coffee in hand and very ready for some more smiles. So keep that happiness coming!
PS: Key is under the second potted plant to the left of the pub door. Come on in and help yourself to libations. No charge tonight because after all, we’re in the midst of a HAPPINESS PROJECT! When you leave, replace the key so the next writer who drops in, can also help themselves to some liquid happiness (we have non-alcoholic drinks as well!)
SEE YOU ALL IN THE AM!
Keep the happiness coming!
Hi Lillian – what an excellent reminder in times when the happy may seem veiled and yet, it is still there, and has been all this time!
🙂
Left my little contribution.
Is there a happy hour still? …
Na’ama
Glad to see you here this morning! Well about a happy hour…..I think every moment one can post to dVerse, is happiness in and of itself. Our pub has an open door policy in terms of happiness! 🙂
Yep! Yay! Here’s to many happy hours, happy moments, happy days … We’re holding out breath a bit here in the US, and are hoping for happier days very soon! 🙂
Hi Lillian, what great pictures you included! I loved your granddaughter’s drawing 🤣
Glad you enjoyed! Did you watch the video of our singing dog? Go back to watch it if you didn’t….it will definitely make you chuckle!
Hello Lillian and everyone! Late to the bar tonight, but participated much earlier. It’s been freezing, and I have a love/hate relationship with the weather this season. Extra blankets and kitties bundled up next to me will have to do as heat.
What a fascinating prompt, and amazing poems that I’ve read. Of course, I twisted happiness in a semi-dark way, as I always do, but nonetheless this “Poetess of Darkness” (Glenn’s nickname for me, hahaha) lightly explored this concept of happiness. Thank you for the great prompt and writing inspiration. I hope all is well.
Glad to see you here in the pub chat this morning….as well as your post. Hah! I wondered what you would do with the word “happiness” given your penchant for the dark? I think of you as the Goth Poetess! 🙂
Oh your dog too cute. Thanks for sharing the happiness project, I have heard of it. Might even buy it to read it.
It’s definitely a good read….especially in these challenging times. Yes…Percy is a funny dog for sure! My daughter-in-law texted me a photo of an empty plate on top of their counter…just some pinkish looking juice on it and told me to guess what it was. I had not idea. Percy had sneaked into the kitchen and eaten the 1 pound of raw Italian sausage they were planning to fry up and put on their homemade pizza!!! Sneaky guy! 🙂
Oops
I have always been a fan of Jung who always believed that we choose our happiness, mainly by being flexible and not rigid in pursuing happiness, but noticing the synchronicities that come to us. Really enjoyed this (Happy 😃)
Happy to have you join us! It seems a happiness project was needed by quite a few folks right now….so many posts! 🙂
Yes, a real surge of entries, wow 🙂
I’m back! Pub doors are wide open! Come on in and breathe in some happiness!
It seems quite a few folks were in need of a happiness project these days — at least by looking at the number of posts! So I’m back to the reading trail and will be on and off all day.
Wine anyone? Hot chocolate? Happiness is friendship delivered through dVerse! 🙂
Late to the party, but I brought chips. {Chocolate, of course.}
Thanks for the happy, Lill.
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