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elephant meditating on presence/presents, Karin Gustafson, Manicddaily, poems as gifts, poetics, Presents/Presence, The Lanyard by Billy Collins
My family was never very big on Christmas presents. Aside from cramped work and school schedules, there loomed the shadow of the long-past, but deeply imprinted, Great Depression. This tended to discourage planned extravagance. (It did not stop occasional unplanned, oh-what-the-hell extravagance, but that kind did not often coordinate with holiday gift-giving.)
Despite the relative simplicity of our presents, we had elaborate rituals associated with their presentation. Rhyming clues would be scribbled on notes affixed to wrapping paper that we would then have to sit, puzzle and laugh over before opening anything.
I loved making up these clues. (I, if you haven’t guessed from the elephant, am Karin Gustafson, a/k/a Manicddaily.) Some Christmases I would be so forlorn when the guessing games were finished–the presents all unwrapped–that I would run down to our basement to grab old books, forgotten tchockes or clothes, even abandoned toiletries, to quickly wrap as “new” presents, coding them with brand new clues.
Okay, that sounds sort of pathetic.
But it also seems to me to be a curious analogy for what poets do: we take bits and pieces of our particular world, wrap them in words, all the while tucking in clues as to what’s really there under the outer trappings, the creased corners and crumpled scotch tape, of both our words and our world.
Poems certainly can feel like presents to a poet. Some like to think of them as gifts from a muse. (Unfortunately, this always makes me picture a mermaidy sort of mayfly flitting above my head.) I prefer to think of poems as gifts of presence.
Because to make an effective poem, it’s not enough just to wrap up and code (or decode) a bit of the world; it’s also necessary to be fully present to that bit of world; to not get stuck in one’s own musings about what one writes, but to be actually awake to the gift of the moment that is to become your poem, to be fully awake, too, to the writing of that poem.
This kind of awareness is useful even if the moment is long gone. Being awake when writing of the past can mean the difference between taking bald tires down memory lane and wheels that truly get traction.
So your prompt for today: to write about presents/presence–separately, together–whatever gives you a poem. (Feel free, people!)
And so you don’t feel required to attack this only from the holiday front–I know that many of you may not be celebrating Christmas or any particular holiday–here’s a video of Billy Collins reading his wonderful poem “The Lanyard” detailing his memory of a childhood gift to his mother. Among the many notable lines–“She gave me life and milk from her breasts/and I gave her a lanyard.”
For another very different, but also beautiful poem dealing with presents/presence: check out “Gifts” by JULIANA HORATIA EWING, in which a woman talks to her lover of the gifts he should bring back from a trip afar, asking only for a true heart.
Speaking of true hearts, there’s Claudia and Brian. I want to take this opportunity to thank them and all the staff at dVerse as well as each of you for the presents of this community, your poetry, and your presence in each of our writing lives.
So, poets, get to work! And if you think that you don’t have time because of shopping or cleaning or cooking chores—tell yourself (as I do!) that your full and attentive presence is one of the best presents you can give to loved ones, a presence that will be ineffably sharpened by your writing, reading, and commenting upon poetry! (I’m not sure that they will buy that, but it certainly sounds good!)
Here’s the drill:
- Write a poem! Be fully present to it! Give it as a gift to the rest of us by posting and linking up! (The gift does not involve any transfer of rights!)
- Click on the Mr. Linky button below and enter your name and url and click enter.
- This is also where you will find the presence of those who also given us poetry today–read, comment, enjoy, feeling free to share your link and a link to dverse using the social media of your choice.
- AND, FINALLY, HAVE A TERRIFIC HOLIDAY AND A BLESSED NEW YEAR!
(PS – all rights reserved as always, especially on the elephants. And Pearl! And, if you are running out of last minute Christmas ideas – check out my books and those of lots of dVerse poets! In my case, there’s one for every age! Especially second childhood.)
Semaphore / Samuel Peralta said:
Wonderful prompt, Karin! Just in the middle of wrapping a few more presents myself… Hope you have a wonderful weekend, and a silvery glide into Christmas!
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, Sam. k.
claudia said:
ha smiles…have fun wrapping presents sam..and a wonderful weekend to you as well
brian miller said:
i would love a silvery glide….a little sledding….snow! i want snow…smiles…merry christmas sam
Glenn Buttkus said:
My poem, CRIMSON TIDE was written, & rewritten a few years ago; as much as I enjoy the family traditions during Christmas, the skeptic poet in me, the history buff, the gadfly, finds the hypocrisy, bloated amalgamation, and Madison Avenue hype and spin, and the poetry must seek truth.
ManicDdaily said:
Sounds great. I am still working on mine but will be visiting shortly. k.
claudia said:
when i was a teenager, i remember one christmas eve when i thought this is all hypocrisy and just couldn’t bear it any more to even stay in the house– i left and roamed the dark streets for hours with thousand unanswered questions…
brian miller said:
karin, great hit with billy collins as well…love him…he’s a hoot to listen too and i def enjoy his poetry as well…
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks. I love that poem and the way he reads generally. I’m not sure if that is my favorite reading of it but it was the only one I could find without ads! k.
claudia said:
k. this is a wonderful article…i love the thought of thinking of poems as gifts of presence…and i love the little ritual you established as a family for the presentations of the presents…wonderful…makes them so much more precious i think… happy writing everyone…see you out on the trail in a bit..
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks so much, Claudia. k.
Daydreamertoo said:
A very lovely prompt idea Karin. Presents and certain presence do/does come in many forms don’t they. Merry Christmas to you and to everyone at the pub.
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks so much, Bren. k.
claudia said:
sometimes they come in form of rain as well…smiles
Laurie Kolp said:
What a wonderful holiday tradition, Karin. I can see why you would want to find more presents to wrap so you could rhyme. It’s part of who we are. Thanks, also, to all of you at dVerse, for allowing us to capture our ‘presence’ and ‘gift’ them to each other… if that makes any sense.
ManicDdaily said:
Sure, does. Thank you, Laurie – and thanks for filling in with the Pretzels! They are wonderful articles. k.
Laurie Kolp said:
Your welcome. I left a comment after Brian.
claudia said:
i agree with k., you’re doing a wonderful job with the interviews laurie, enjoying them a lot
brian miller said:
i’ll third that…grins…
Laurie Kolp said:
Thanks, Karin, Claudia and Brian. I am really enjoying it.
hypercryptical said:
Lovely prompt Karin – thank you.
Thank you too to all the wonderful inspirational hosts at dVerse.
Merry Christmas everyone!
Anna :o]
claudia said:
so lovely to read about your grandchild…do tell us when he/she “arrived”…smiles
brian miller said:
merry christmas anna….enjoy that new life this season…will be a very special time in your home.
hypercryptical said:
I will Claudia – I really can’t wait!
The wonderful little thing will be “Theo” when he arrives, that is, unless it is felt he doesn’t suit the name.
Anna :o]
ManicDdaily said:
Yes, many many congratulations! k.
hypercryptical said:
Thank you Karin.
Anna :o]
Heaven (@asweetlust) said:
This is a wonderful idea Karin ~ I think presence and words of encouragement are lovely gifts or presents ~
From my home to yours & everyone at D’verse – Blessed Christmas to everyone ~
Grace
ManicDdaily said:
Thank you, Grace and for all your fine poems. K.
claudia said:
a blessed christmas to you as well grace
brian miller said:
merry christmas grace…smiles.
brian miller said:
doing christmas with my parents this weekend so i got to open my first presents of the season already….really nice prompt….sorry i am late we were eating and time got away from us…on my way around….
claudia said:
ha – you should never hurry when you eat…the french are experts in this…they eat for hours…smiles
brian miller said:
oh they tried to put a hurting on me with things to eat…smiles….
Laurie Kolp said:
So what’d you get? = )
brian miller said:
couple poetry books…and my big present was a weekend with my wife down in NC, with them keeping the kids…and tickets to the UNC basketball game that weekend…woot….will be a great get away the first weekend in february…
claudia said:
oh nice…poetry and travel…that sounds pretty perfect…smiles
brian miller said:
yep, a few years ago my mom started doing that for me, experiences over tangible gifts as other than books or clothes i have want of little and each year its been a little different and a whole lot of fun…
Susan L Daniels said:
Karin–love this prompt! Merry Christmas.
brian miller said:
merry christmas susan
Susan L Daniels said:
You too, Brian!
Martin Shone said:
I wrote a poem and struggled to decide whether to post it or not, but I decided to in the end.
ManicDdaily said:
Great. Will check it out. Thanks. k.
claudia said:
glad you posted it…it’s a moving piece martin
Martin Shone said:
Thank you, Claudia.
The Happy Amateur said:
Hi,
really enjoyed your article, Karin. Thank you for the prompt.
Have a wonderful holiday, everyone!
Sasha
brian miller said:
merry christmas sasha
claudia said:
a wonderful holiday to you as well sasha
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks so much. Happy holidays. k.
Audrey Howitt said:
Happy Holidays!
claudia said:
happy holidays to you as well audrey…your poem brought tears to my eyes…
ManicDdaily said:
Sam to you Audrey.
brian miller said:
audrey, great to see you…smiles…merry christmas!
claudia said:
alright poets, signing off for the night..see you bright and early in the AM… looking forward to wake to some of your poetic presents…smiles
brian miller said:
sleep well friend…
ManicDdaily said:
Good night, Claudia! I have to go out for a bit, but will make rounds when i come back. Thanks for your presence! k.
hedgewitch (@hedge_witch) said:
Karin, you created a prompt that I couldn’t resist, and I really thank you for the gift of inspiration, as the poetry hole has been pretty dry(and dismal) of late. Wrote this totally on the fly as we are in packing mode for leaving in the morning, so will try to get around as I can, but a most happy holiday to all, and best wishes for brighter days ahead.
brian miller said:
to brighter days for sure…enjoy your trip hedge…joy to the world you know…hehehe…happy holidays friend…smiles.
ManicDdaily said:
Ha! Good packing and safe travels, Joy! I am sorry all – I’ve been out but on a great little expedition to the Metropolitan Museum. Talk about a gift. Anyway, looking forward to all. k.
Victoria C. Slotto said:
Karin, this is such a wonderful post. I love the account of you wrapping more presents so you could create more verse-clues. It felt like something I would do. And I second your thank you to Brian and Claudia…they are, indeed, presents/presence in our lives. And to all of the poets here at dVerse. I’ve been absent this last week–computer woes and a minor health issue and was going to wait until after Christmas to post again. But this prompt is oh-so-tempting, and I think I have something already written, although I would prefer to write something new. Merry Christmas, everyone. Enjoy whatever you celebrate! And, yeah! We have snow at last.
brian miller said:
always great to see you ma’am….so the computer issues are over? happy holidays victoria! no fair, i want snow!!!!
Victoria C. Slotto said:
Well, come on down (or over, I guess)!
brian miller said:
if i leave now i may be there by new years…smiles.
kimnelsonwrites said:
Hooray for you, Victoria! SNOW! I live in the Sonora Desert. As I bake Christmas cookies, all doors are wide open!
ManicDdaily said:
Hope you are feeling better, and that the snow is beautiful. k.
janehewey said:
super prompt, Karin. I love the story from your childhood.
brian miller said:
that is a very cool tradition isnt it…might need to start doing that for my boys….ha…merry christmas jane
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, Jane. Thanks too for your kind and inspiring presence (as a relatively newcomer) at dVerse. I love all the poets I’ve gotten to know a bit, and great to have newer voices too. k.
kimnelsonwrites said:
Yippee, Karin! I really like this prompt. And Billy Collins… one of my favs. I once had the privilege of sitting next to Mr. Collins at a luncheon, during which he read this particular poem to the group. AMAZING!!!!
brian miller said:
no way…that is awesome! i have a few recordings of him delivering that i listen to in the car occasionally…almost as good as live, right? ha.
happy holidays kim
ManicDdaily said:
So much fun! k.
Miriam E. said:
wonderful prompt, Karin.
this took me back to one of my most favorite moments… thank you so much for it.
brian miller said:
happy holidays miriam….smiles.
Miriam E. said:
Happy Holidays! 🙂
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, Miriam! k.
dani said:
yes, a big THANK YOU to Claudia, Brian and everyone at dVerse! and thank you, Karin!
Happy Holidays!
brian miller said:
and thank you dani…yours was a fun piece…different, which is very cool…smiles.
ManicDdaily said:
Thank you, Dani. k.
David Eric Cummins said:
Thank you for this prompt. I think I took the idea in a different direction, but I hope everyone enjoys it nonetheless.
brian miller said:
a new direction is always appreciated…ha..a nice bit of sad truth in yours too…
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, David. k.
Behind The Smile said:
Truly reminding us of what Christmas/ birthdays etc are all about. Gifts or presence? Lovely prompt. Thank you. Merry Christmas to those who celebrate Christmas.
brian miller said:
merry christmas to you as well…smiles…
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks much, have a great holiday. k.
Mary said:
Karin, thank you so much for hosting. I love the way you phrased the prompt and the idea of thinking about ‘presence’ as well as ‘presents.’ I think that for me presence becomes more and more important each year and is, in fact, the best gift one can give or receive…..
And I would like to wish Merry Christmas to all who share poetry here! Thank you all for your ‘presence.’
ManicDdaily said:
Thank you, Merry Mary! k.
hollyannegetspoetic said:
Thanks for the prompt Karin – you sent me off in a most unexpected (for me anyway!) direction as it’s almost like a luuuurve poem or something! lol.
Wishing everyone at dVerse a wonderful Christmas! xx
brian miller said:
a little lurve goes a long way…smiles…
happy holidays!
hollyannegetspoetic said:
Thanks Brian – and to you. 🙂
ManicDdaily said:
Sounds good! k.
brian miller said:
alright poets…grabbed the last several and then heading to bed…see you manana…
Sabio Lantz said:
I loved Collin’s short-story/poem. Fantastic!
Thank you. Happy Belated Solstice
brian miller said:
happy belated solstice sabio…as ever you make our minds turn a bit in your riddle…smiles…travel light this holiday season
Sabio Lantz said:
Thanx, Brian, may the coming days be filled with many fun memories for you and yours.
ManicDdaily said:
Thank you, Sabio. Collins is a wonderful poet, and I think there are many posted videos and audio readings of his work. k.
Sabio Lantz said:
I will go explore. Thank you so much again.
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks much all – I have not quite been able to visit everyone but will finish in AM! Oops, it is the AM – but later in the AM. k.
Susan said:
better late than never
This amazing prompt has opened the presences here in brilliant ways and softer light. Thank you Karen!
And surrounded by family, I have slowed down on reading and commenting so much that I can only hope to catch up before the new year.
dVerse! Brian and Claudia and Pub crawlers, you are such a gift in my life!
claudia said:
smiles..thank you susan…and thanks for the gift of your wrapped words as well…
brian miller said:
good morning susan…and thanks for the email as well..made me smile…merry christmas friend…
Polly Robinson said:
Thank you for this prompt, k ~ wishing you and everyone else at dVerse the very best for Christmas and the New Year.
claudia said:
happy holidays to you as well polly..
brian miller said:
happy holidays polly, appreciate your different take on present too and using our voices…a nice challenge in that…
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, Polly. To you as well k.
hobgoblin2011 said:
Nice selection tonight Karin. Great article, loved hearing about the puzzles, I found that tradition pretty neat. Lots of excellent poems tonight as well, thanks for hosting. And for all I don’t see before Tuesday, Merry Christmas.
claudia said:
merry christmas to you as well fred…enjoyed your piece a lot today
brian miller said:
fred…..i agree lots of cool poems, yours right in there as well….have a great holiday man…and will catch back up with you tuesday as well…
ManicDdaily said:
Merry Christmas, Fred. k.
claudia said:
nice.. just read the overnights….will exchange my poetry glasses for running shoes now and say hello to the rain…smiles
brian miller said:
tell the rain high…smiles…coffee….than out on the trail…smiles.
brian miller said:
haha…english is my second language before coffee obviously, oh my…’hi’ and ‘then’…oy
ManicDdaily said:
Yes.
claudia said:
haha…i usually speak chinese before i had my first cup of coffee…smiles
ManicDdaily said:
I think I’ve gotten to everyone who’s linked up. Please do feel free to leave a comment here if I missed you. Many wonderful poems. Thanks much. k.
Kelvin S.M. said:
…oh..no..just got settled from a day of busy panic buying of presents and a friend’s birthday party… i am super late… hehe… anyway, thanks Karin for offering us a very interesting and tempting Poetics… Happy Holidays to all!!!
..smiles….
claudia said:
ha smiles…panic buying sounds familiar…my daughter’s working in a big shopping center right now on the “we wrap your gifts for free” table…oh my..she can tell stories and stories…smiles
happy holiday kelvin!
Kelvin S.M. said:
…yup…it sure did a familiar scene… hectic work scheds always give me reasons to rush in malls and everywhere… haha… wrapping gifts are really an interesting and fun job though could be tiring especially in this season of (yes) panic buying… a peaceful Holidays Claudia and to everyone…(:
ManicDdaily said:
Thanks, Kelvin. Same to you. k.
Sara V said:
So sorry to have no time to write and play, but had to say “Thank you!” for the Billy Collins poem–I love him!! 🙂 Merry Christmas!
ManicDdaily said:
Thank you. Have a merry Christmas also, Sara. k.
clawfish said:
Missed the Linky by a couple of hours but here it is http://velvetmedia.wordpress.com/2012/12/24/giving/ and have a wonderful Christmas everyone i send my love to you all
ManicDdaily said:
A beautiful beautiful poem and I urge anyone following this comment thread to read it. Thanks much. k.