..aww… well, some of you have already figured out that I was a bit sick this late having quite a hard time dealing with my SJS (Stevens-Johnson Syndrome) for the second time ‘round. SJS is a rare, serious disorder in which skin and mucous membranes react severely to a medication or infection causing the top layer of the skin to die and shed. There are no specific symptoms that can be associated to it but I got rashes & blisters on both legs and arms, and a few rashes on my back. And, nope – that is not the topic of our Poetics today, ok! …smiles…
Lately, while having a couple of treatments here and there I got myself busy reading books and taking pictures. I am currently an Instagram addict and I have one account there where I post all the photos I took which are mostly self-portrait and nature-inspired. Now, I know you all are wondering already about the title of our article today, ‘Asians are Ugly!’ – sounds discriminating and offensive right? Well, that was exactly the note I got when I posted a photo of me on my Instagram. Usually the quantity of likes I got from every post called my attention until this disgusting comment suddenly came out and made me feel a bit upset. He/she commented that ‘..asians are ugly!.. the ugliest in the world God ever made… and that we should all die and stop speaking English… coz we just mess up with it…’ I went over his/her page to check and got even more surprised to have seen that this guy/gal were also uploading and posting pictures of different young Asian girls and boys tagging them with nasty lines. I didn’t confront him/her although I got hurt and offended basically because I have an Asian blood, I live in Asia, I am from Philippines. I didn’t bother to send him/her any message simply because I am not the type of person who would waste his time confronting a ghost – yes, that person, whoever he/she is, was hiding under a false name and I could hardly trace any real identity of him/her so instead I blocked his/her account and reported it to the Instagram admin. I even encouraged my friends and followers to do the same thing for this ‘meany’ guy/gal in order to get him/her totally out of existence. Right now, the said account is already deleted since I can no longer search him/her but I know ‘haters are haters’ at the end of the day and this person will not stop and for sure he/she will find a way to create another dummy to spread his/her evil side. Last week, I got infos that another one or two of same deal is appearing again on the web but I didn’t bother to check anymore – ah, such a waste of time!
Just a thought, have you ever been discriminated? The issue of discrimination is no longer new to me and I feel so sorry for those who are lucky enough to have experienced such. But believe me it even hurts more when you are the one being discriminated already. Definitely my first time to experience such unschooled manner and it was both really shocking and funny that I even forgot I have SJS at the time… lol..
OK. Forgive me for bringing this issue up here at dVerse. I know I shouldn’t have to but I feel like I needed to share… just to release, ye know… I have initially planned to write and offer something formal article for today like what I did in my previous hosting but this topic about Asians keep on bugging me.
And so, because we are UGLY you will have to write a poem for us. Yes – our Poetics challenge for today is to write about your Asian experience/s. Have you been to any country in Asia? Have you met and able to talk to an Asian before? Do you have any experience of culture, food, tradition, people, and language in Asia? What do you know about Asians? What is your first perspective or impressions when you hear or see people coming from Asia? Do you think we are UGLY? lol… erase… erase… ok, just write anything about your own Asian experience be it current or happened a long time ago. Do you have issues about Asian people and the countries covered by Asia? Write it…. good or bad experiences we will all read… besides this is all about honesty. As I once said in a poem: “..in writing poetry you, first, have to think of honesty… and forget the beauty of frailty between you and me…” or if you think you don’t have any Asian experience yet you might want to consider this another option:
umaga = morning
gabi = evening
dapit hapon = sunset
bukang liwayway = dawn
dalagita = lady / young woman
binata = young man
saranggola / guryon / burador = kite
bata = child
binibini = miss
ginoo = mister
ilog / sapa / batis = river
hangin = wind / air
lupa = land / earth
ibon = bird
lawa = lake
puno / mga puno = tree / trees
dagat / karagatan = sea / ocean
lola = grandmother
lolo = grandfather
ina / inay / nanay = mother
ama / itay / tatay = father
kuya = older brother
ate = older sister
bunso = youngest sibling
bahay = house
ulap = clouds
langit / kalangitan = sky
araw = sun
damo / damuhan = grass / grassland
isda = fish
aso = dog
pusa = cat
tala / bituin = star
gubat / kagubatan = forest / forests
I have listed above some of the Tagalog (Philippines’ mother tongue) words with its closest translation in English for your reference. You can pick 3 to 5 or more from the list and use them in your poem or if you want more options go here and here for additional lists of some commonly used Tagalog phrases and words.
The following is my own example of mixed Tagalog – English language as used in poetry:
Two Poems: Dalagita
I. The Mango Harvest
o mint green,
half-ripe mangoes
in baskets
of all sizes –
(and) blushing dalagitas i see
laughing ere a mango tree.
II. Naughty Wind
then i saw her
crossed the street
a petite dalagita –
her long, night-coated hair
plays like guryon in the air.
Copyright © 2013, Kelvin S.M.. All Rights Reserved.
This ‘mix’ experimentation may sound awkward but it, always, depends on how you will use the inputs I have just provided earlier. My name is Kelvin and I am your ‘Asian’ host for today and to formally start this Asian revenge (lol) first, le’me tell ya how this will work:
- Write your poem (using the topic / prompt suggested) and post it to your blog
- Click on the Mr. Linky button below and enter your name and URL and click enter.
- This is also where you will find the list of those that have also joined in—visit others, read, comment, meet new people—let people know what you think of their verse.
- Feel free to share your link and a link to dVerse using the social media of your choice.
- …and lastly, of course, smiles…
ha. you caught me off guard with the title kelvin..ugh on that guy though…that is rather disgusting what he is doing…what can you say to such ignorance…if you would have confronted him he would have been pickled pink to get the attention i am sure…ugh…
so i went godzilla…and it seems a bit surreal as i mixed it in with a recent zoo vivit with my boys…
happy saturday…see you out on the trail…
…the Godzilla thing is perfect Brian… ha, see this turtle me is coming to respond… though super late… hihi…
Ugly– that’s a take I never would have thought of… but thinking asian.. I went as far back as I could… before I could even remember.. now I will get into reading. While we have Eurovision song-contest.. (that’s ugly)
ha. if it is like the opening weeks of american idol…i can understand completely…lol…
Much much more… If you haven’t seen it’s worth watching.. and the final is here in Sweden this year.
nice…will have to see if i can find it online somewhere…have a blogfriend that always posts about it when on…
…well, after this… the word ‘ugly’ will never be read & interpreted the same way again…:)
I lived in Indonesia for two years as a child and went to school there, learning Bahasa Indonesia. Sadly I have had to learn many other foreign languages since then, because of my work, and the Malay sort of disappeared from my hard disk.
But the experiences are still in my head and I hope you think Wayang is Asian enough for you this evening. It was fun thinking back, Kelvin.
what work was that aprille? would be cool to learn more language, esp if for travel…i know a little about quite a few but not enough to survive on…
…indeed Aprille… and thank you for sharing your experiences with us… smiles… enjoyed it!
Well this is personal and honest write from me Kelvin ~ Here in Canada, Asians abound and live harmoniously with the other cultures ~ Discrimination will always be around but we have learned to treat each other with respect and even celebrate the diversity of our cultures ~
You know, I just hated the outcome of your elections, what else ~ But dirty politics is also here starting with our Toronto mayor ~
I wish you all a wonderful weekend ~
Grace
ugh. politics is dirty business for sure…your poem is a ripper grace…really enjoyed…one i would love to hear performed….
think kelvin is still sleeping so tip toe around til he wakes…smiles.
…politics started dirty… it will eventually end up the same… too sad… and i hope not… you def rock with your piece Grace… you mixed it so well enough to hit our chords… smiles…
oops!!! the title. Me being an Asian( South Asian exactly; India). The topic is a mixture of different feelings for me. Is beauty the only judging aspect for the goodness of a person? his/her heart might be more beautiful than his/her face.
So , here is my poem ….I think it suits the prompt…..Thanks
…have you read the whole article? it might be not what you have concluded initially… see we tend to judge easily a cover without even reading / hearing what it has to say inside… smiles… i def like your soothing poem… thanks…
I live in Bayside, Queens, New York, an area packed with Asian immigrants. I love the diversity of my neighborhood! Everyone gets along, and we have great and varied cuisine available in local restaurants. And our immigrant population, in particular the Koreans, are incredibly hard-working and very into education and music.
I love the varied cuisine as well ~
And I agree with you on the (South) Koreans – they are very hard working and so eager to learn English ~
nice…i def love trying new food from various cultures…its only the lima bean that scares me….kryptonite i tell you…ha
…me too… i used to have korean classmates & friends before & up to now… and they are so good natured people… humble… and sweet… smiles… you have a beautiful environment around you…
you’re so hilarious, I even imagined your face while composing this article 🙂 nice
…ha, mind me… you woudn’t like to see… lol…
I’m sick to my stomach thinking of the vile discriminatory comment you got, Kelvin. Now that is ugliness. My poem was written before this but it’s about the beauty of Quan Yin…it will take me a few minutes to finish the post.
very cool…and you even made the form applicable to the prompt…smiles.
…the issue about me shouldn’t have been a big deal in the first place… c’mon i’m 22… what got me up real hard was the discovery of uploaded pics of young asian races including a photo of a child (i think age 3 to 5) on their page tagging ’em with nasty lines… and i think that’s super foul… thanks for your short inspiring poem Victoria… smiles…
Whew! I’m Asian, so no apologies necessary! (I’m Canadian too, no apologies for that either!)
Now, as to poetry… Remember Ezra Pound’s rendering of the classic Chinese poem by Li Po – “The River Merchant’s Wife: A Letter” – about a young girl whose husband’s travels on the river take him far away from her, who speaks to him in the words of the poem?
Here’s my offering – the man’s reply – in an original poem “The River Merchant’s Wife: An Answer”.
really cool now to see your response in light of the poem that inspired it sam…
…your poem for sure is of the top rankings for this segment of Poetics… it takes a real genius in literature like you to create an excellent moving poem… adorable! smiles…
That was quite a title, if I may say so! 🙂 I am sorry you had to encounter such rudeness.
Now, I don’t know what to write for this prompt because I did not just visit Asia, I lived and breathed Asia, and wherever I am now, still carry Asia with me. 🙂
ah then you have much to tell…smiles…the hard part for you will be narrowing it down…smiles.
I don’t know, Brian. I have difficulty about speaking about something I intimately know. On the one hand, I have too much information, then there is the emotion involved too, on the other. Anyway, I wrote something based on an article from a foreign press that I read – the Filipino smile. It is a bit here and there – but, for the love of Dverse… 🙂
…smiles… i am looking forward to your poem… hihi… sana mawala na sjs ko para makakain na ulit ako ng mga foods na gusto ko… hihi… puro ako gulay ngeun e… 🙂
Hindi ko maatim na biguin ka kaya nagsulat akokahit papaano. 🙂 Pagaling ka, kapatid.
Para sa iyo ng ngumingiti pa rin kahit may sakit.
…smiles… hihi… salamat ate Imelda…. 🙂 🙂 🙂
P.S. I hope you have recovered from your bout with SJS. 🙂
Kelvin, I am sorry you experienced this hateful person. My sister is half Korean, half white American. My daughters are Korean. Two of my grandchildren are half Korean- one fourth white – one fourth black. Three of my grandchildren are half Korean – half Hispanic. I am actually (as 100% Caucasion) the minority when family gets together. My grandchildren are growing up in a multi racial world. They pay race no heed really. Anyway there are mean spirited people everywhere, Kelvin. If it isn’t race hateful people have a problem with, it could be religion or sexual orientation or sex or age or something else. I really am sorry you experienced it though, especially when you are dealing with SJS (which sounds hard). I have been to various countries in Asia, love Asian food, have never been to the Philippines. I shared a poem about Bangkok.
…i really really enjoyed your Bangkok poem & your korean inspired poem… ha.. def made my day… smiles… about the haters? well i don’t think of ’em anymore… i’ll leave everything to God… & let karma define real ugliness… lol… smiles… you have beautiful grands with the brightest of eyes when they smiles…
I am loving the rainy weather here with the added writing opportunity it provides. So sorry to hear about your SJS. I used to teach English as a Second Language and one of the most beautiful, kind, and respectful students I have ever had spoke Tagalog. She graciously attempted to teach me a few words. When we had our end of the year feast, her food was definitely the best! There are some things I really miss about teaching.
…i am glad you have met & encountered a Filipino already… & i couldn’t agree more on the delicious foods of Filipinos… i don’t know how to cook personally & i most dine in a resto… eating alone sometimes with Dad… but mostly alone while in the city… i always looked forward for the holidays… the only time i got to spend time visiting my mum in the province… definitely missed her filipino dishes a lot… the best kind in the world… especially her versiob of adobo & afritada… smiles…
hey…good evening…i’m way late…was at a party in the deepest forest…ha…and had no phone connection…so…
kelvin i love the article…love your honesty and heck it’s just terrible how people discriminate others…ugh… looking forward to read the asian poetry everyone’s coming up with…have never been to asia….but hope to change this soon..
hey you…was starting to wonder about you…smiles…glad you made it out of the forest…smiles…
i left bread crumbs on the path to find the way back, ya know…smiles
…aww… i over slept again…and the drugs i’m taking these days are to blame.. hihi…
..just some typo corrections:
…if anyone has used or is using the ‘kite’ word in their poem please read this… the CORRECT possible tagalog translation is: ‘BOLADOR’ & not ‘burador’….smiles…
…happy writing poets / friends…
..p.s.>> forgive me for the title…(T___T) please don’t misinterpret… read on first… smiles…
I did read on. I hope you will find my response appropriate – I have never been to Asia, but have known many lovely people from that continent.
i think you were more than appropriate viv…smiles.
will read yours tomorrow with fresh eyes viv… already after midnite over here and my eyes are giving in…
mine too. I read all the comments and found them fascinating; but I haven’t the energy to read all the poems…. tomorrow.
sleep well viv…
Too much black forest gateau at that forest party, claudia? that could make anybody sleepy 🙂
Me too, midnight here. The UK did brilliantly again at the Eurovision Song fest: nul points or thereabouts. Stopping by tomorrow morning.
…very appropriate indeed… and perfect in addressing the issue… thank you so much for your words… smiles…
i love your word for kite kelvin…it carries a bit of the wind in its wings…
…and i’m proud that we’re having an asian host in the pub…smiles
…smiles… you sure don’t want to make me cry right… thanks Claudia & all…
I thought I wrote a comment, but !!
I’ll try again. No link above as I haven’t written a poem yet, but I have written a response, Kelvin, and if you have time, I hope you will read it: http://susan60.blogspot.com/2013/05/stereotypes-are-ugly.html
nice…appreciate your response susan…your thoughts…and you def bring out a truth there…on experience…
…i will Susan… i’ll be there soon… just came back home after meeting my physician for another set of skin treatment… smiles…
When I saw the title, I had to click over and I read what happened to you with great pain. My son is married to the most beautiful adorable little Filipino girl in the world and she is a daughter to me as much as my other two girls. In Canada, as Grace mentioned, we are a very multicultural society. How anyone can think such a lovely gentle respectful people are – that offensive word – is just beyond me. But to post that publicly is really the ugliest thing ever and reflects very poorly on that person. Now I am moved to write a poem about Zenny, in response to what I have just read here. Thank you, Kelvin. I’m glad you reported that person – they should be shut down.
nice…look forward to it sherry…
i agree they should be…
…these people are just wanting for attention… they succedeed maybe…. i did my part in reporting & blocking ’em… at least the most action i can take to stop ’em since their identities are not quite visible… well the rest i’ll leave everything to God… and let karma define what’s best for ’em… smiles… i am more than happy to meet a fellow filipino in your daughter in law, Zenny… she has the biggest & brightest smile common to us Filipinos… smiles… pls tell her kamusta… and i am pleased to know her thru your lovely words… smiles…
I love the example poems you shared at the end. You churned up a great memory for me to start from. One of the most beautiful women I’ve never known is Asian. What a creative prompt. And for the record, I tend to think “ugly” people are the most beautiful.
…yes… yes.. yes… thank you for your words… smiles…
Kelvin, I knew what you were talking about from the title. One of the down sides of the Net is that it allows “rednecks” and bigots to spew hatred with total anonymity. Actually, you can report that person to Facebook and they will get the heave-ho.
My Dad was in the South Pacific in WWII, the Philippines, and after the war said, “You know, I think if I were to sit down and have a beer with the Japanese equivalent of a Chief Petty Officer (Dad’s rank), I’ll bet we have a lot of the same gripes. Some of his Vet friends dismissed him and wouldn’t talk to him for weeks.
Empathy seems lost on our world. Asians are the new target, and everyday folks of all kinds of descent are ostracized due to American corporate moguls moving operations overseas at the expense of the American worker. I say, you want to hate someone? Hate the Koch Brothers, the rich so-and-sos.
Peace, and I’ll try to write to this, even if it’s a funny piece…. Amy
…these people are def no worthy of our anger… just let ’em do what they do… and let the right karma define what’s best for ’em… smiles… i will look forward to your take… smiles…
I have a litte bit of Asian myself. My mother was Anglo-Indian. Which means that I have the same heritage, though somewhat more diluted and unfortunately invisible. I have always thought Asians beautiful.
When I visited Bali several times in the seventies, I fell in love with the whole place as if it were a person, and formed friendships with particular people there too. I’ve written a number of poems about those experiences, and have chosen one that recounts the early days of my first visit, and how my family and I learned new ways of being.
nice..i have a friend who fell in love with bali as well and she goes there on a regular base..
…we are all indeed beautiful Rosemary… we just lack in acceptance & right appreciation… smiles… thanks for a kind heart… smiles…
…thank you so much for the wonderful responses to this prompt… and for sharing your beautifuly heart here at dVerse… i read all your comments here & i planned to respond them later… just so you know i appreciate you all… i am reading & moving slowly as always like a turtle… but i will reach you soon… for now i have to go & see a family doctor for another set of skin treatment… will be back as soon as i get settled home… smiles…
Oh…The title got me worried. Smiles,
The bottom line is every culture and race has it’s own uniqueness and beauty, be it black, white, asian, mexican, mixed …whatever! Calling people ugly is really just plain ignorance….and one of the dumbest thing to say!!..Best is to ignore that fatheaded fellow…smiles..and get well soon!!
…i am glad you didn’t misinterpret the title… i put it that way,intentionally, because i want to know who really looks beyond the cover…. like my topic for today… you can easily judge & me for the title of my article… but if you go on reading its content you will discover the real beauty of an article… the cover / title can easily call attention and was judged immediately… rather than knowing first what it has to say inside… thank you for the kind wishes… i am undergoing treatments i hope to end soon… smiles…
i will echo that hope with you that it is over soon for you…smiles…
…whew… the turtle is done… now off for diner & another set of drugs for sure… haaaayy… smiles…
Hi Kelvin. I am sickened that you have been treated in this manner. You are a beautiful person who writes beautiful poetry that gives to me much pleasure. I am also sorry about this syndrome from which you suffer. But I am glad that you blog. As a young woman I lived in Okinawa for a year. In 2007 I was lucky enough to visit China. Thank you for giving us so very much to think about. Even though you are recovered from this nasty person’s comments to you – I am sending you big (((hugs))).
your haibun were beautiful liz…the first for your willingness to stand up…and hope that new growth does grow from that…
smiles …:)
…smiles… thank you Liz… i have linked your article on my page… and glad to know more about the title of your blog… oh, how i forgot the ‘noh’… had a short course in Nihongo back more than a year ago now so i def must know it… ha… smiles…
You are a special person Kelvin. It is an honor to know you here upon the Net.
Thank you, Kelvin. You’ve turned a disgusting and disturbing situation into a wonderful opportunity to inspire people from all over the world through poetry. 🙂
…i just share an experience… you, all, beautiful talented people who made it worthwhile sharing… and for that, thank you! one thing is for sure… we all made a difference today and most especially for tomorrow… smiles…
I’m so sorry Kelvin! This is so sad n’ cruel. I was recently discriminated against and wonder now-have I been before and didn’t realize it?! I was at an interview and my accent made eyes roll. I am not sure of my nationality, but I have been told I’m Puerto Rican, Hawaiian, Spanish, Mexican, Italian and Eskimo. Being a military spouse I have had the opportunity to meet many different people and for the most part they were kind, not cruel. I commend you for having the courage to go forth and turn this situation around! YOU are beautiful and I’m so glad I found your poetry and heard your voice~ @>————-
….thank you Ella… you really know how it feels…. i am glad to meet you here at dVerse…. smiles…
I have written a poem and attempted a translation using your words given and the links.
…and i liked it…. glad my version was received in the way it should be received… thanks… smiles…
I wrote this in haste but wanted to respond to you, Kelvin, because you know that fear of the unfamiliar and change and what is different is at the bottom of bullying or threats or racial bigotry. It is not really a poem, but I am taking advantage of today’s prompt to make a statement, and although I admire Asian beauty and culture I do not live it like you do, nor have I been past Hawaii in the Pacific. A lot of people here have pr have intimate relationships with Asians….
I will try to leave comments tonight, but I yesterday said I would be out of commission for a month or more but it was hard to stay away today…that still holds true..I just want to say I’m sorry you had that negative experience and know that you are not alone. People are basically good inside. And I wish you improved health.
smiles…it is hard to stay away…i like to think people are basically good as well…i have met some ignorant good people too, you know…they lack experience and take whatever they hear as gospel and…
travel light ma’am
I really do not know why mean people just do not hang out with other mean people.
Good health to you. Most people are good somewhere inside themselves. Most of the mean people I have met were totally crushed people within and spread negativity and bad vibes everywhere. Good thing you did not respond.
That makes you the better person!
Hi guys! …I’m better late than never right 😉
Thanks for the prompt Kelvin …. I hope I did a bit of justice to it 😀
Alright then, Have a great week people! 🙂
hey you made it…smiles….be over in a minute…
I hope that guy doesn’t go near my daughter’s Instagram account as she is Asian, but I can’t protect her from him. What a sad specimen of humanity. Great poetry prompt!
…def we can’t resist ’em as haters as almost always present everywhere, every time, every day… but we can always ignore ’em…. def. not worth of our anger… smiles…
Dear Kelvin, I missed the deadline and I lost my comment here! That is the price for staying away.
Anyway, rudeness in any culture is unacceptable. It is his loss, and our gain – for here we are, deliberating on a most unusual topic.
I am so Asian, I revel in it, and no ‘impoverished’ person (I almost feel sorry for him – how many beautiful friendships he has spunned because of his prejudice) is going to make me feel otherwise.
You take care Kelvin.And thank you.
By the way, Langit and Angin means the same in Tagalog and Malay. Hence, my poem.
…our language are almost like kindred spirits… the Malay language has a soulful feel when read aloud and even in silence… i am always fascinated everytime I read you write in Malay even though i most likely wouldn’t get it… smiles… i am glad you could join us in this celebration of appreciating the real beauty in each of us… smiles… take care!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂