Good morning/afternoon/evening ladies and gentlemen, and welcome to Open Link Night 108 … smiles.
Have you ever had the sensation of being stuck; stuck in your job, in your life, in your writing? Likely as not you have – it happens to us all at some point in our lives, and for many of us it will happen more than once. If that is where you’re at right now, rest assured that you are not alone.
Anyone who is kind enough to read my poetry blog will have noticed that over recent months the frequency of posts has been greatly reduced. Even when it’s been my turn at the bar, I’ve sometimes struggled to write anything at all. Some writers like to get all poetic about this and give it a name; we call it writer’s block. Others don’t believe in it at all.
There are some fairly common causes that can contribute to an apparent inability to write anything. In one of my favourite books on creativity – Rumors of Water – author L.L. Barkat gives several reasons why a writer might be finding it hard to write, and also makes suggestions about how to overcome these hurdles.
As I look at the times when I’ve found it hard to write, the cause has usually been one of three problems:
i) Lack of inspiration; I simply don’t feel like I have anything to write about. According to Barkat, the cure for this is to play more, get out more or try something new. “Writing begins with living,” she says.
ii) Idealism; sometimes I simply don’t want to take a risk. I think I have a good – even a great – idea, and I don’t want to waste it by writing badly. The result – I don’t write at all.
iii) Lack of belief in my ability; this one is connected to the previous problem. Sometimes I think that there is simply no way that I will ever be able to do justice to an idea or prompt, whether it is one of my own, or one that someone else has given. Again, the result is that I end up not writing.
Here at the dVerse Pub, Brian and Claudia, ably assisted by all the other bar-tenders, are building a community where we encourage each other to write the poems that each of us has inside. One way to do that is by sharing our work with each other – and that’s what Open Link Night is about.
Another way we can encourage and support each other is by sharing our experience of overcoming the obstacles we have experienced in our journeys as poets/writers. So let me ask you, have you ever experienced writers’ block and, if you have, what helped you to overcome it?
My name is Tony Maude, and it’s my pleasure to be your host today. For anyone who is new here – Welcome. It’s great to see you … smiles – here’s how Open Link Night works:
- Write a poem and post it to your webpage.
- Click on the Mr. Linky button below and enter your name and direct url/web address to your poem; one poem per person please.
- There you will also find the list of those participating this week. You might want to refresh this occasionally or check back in as there are people joining over the next 33 hours.
- If it’s your first time here, please leave a comment to say so. That makes it much easier for us to find you and encourage you by visiting your site.
- Read other poets who have linked. Let them know what you thought, how their poem moved you, what caught your attention etc. The not-so-secret formula to receiving more visits and comments on your blog is to read and comment on other people’s poems. Please don’t forget to return the favour of those who have visited and commented on your work.
- Encourage others to participate through social media, promote both your own work and others.
- Have fun meeting and engaging with your fellow poets.
Hi, Tony, and happy Open Link Night to all!
Hi Marilyn – Happy Open Link Night to you too. It’s great to see you.
tuesday, a scottish barkeeper behind the bar and lots & lots of poetry on tap – what can go wrong…? ha…smiles… happy OLN everyone
Hey, so far everything’s going OK. I turned up on the right day this week … smiles
p.s. will think about your question and answer later…. good thoughts in this sir
smiles. you know i am one of the ones that don’t believe in it…but i can def appreciate it…def the reasons you give are insightful as well and probably more the cause than any kind of actual block…
good to see you man…and a new poem by you as well..thanks for tending…
and will see you out on the trail…
as to getting over it…its no secret as well that i write every day regardless…i only post 5 times a week but for me it is a discipline…sometimes it is not good…and that is ok, esp on days i am not feeling it…its a writing habit…worse case scenario, i sit and still myself and observe life and try to capture that on paper…one days its not good, i still may farm a line or phrase from it for future use…
i think we can pressure ourselves into not writing because it is not good enough…and sometimes, we are being too critical on ourselves as well…
Hi Brian – see you out on the trail. I suspect that one reason for writers’ block is simply not lifting pen to paper – or finger to keyboard – and just writing.
personally i know that is part of it…when i go a few days and dont write its harder to get it going again…i have to prime the pump a bit, you know…
Welcome one and all. Looking forward to chewing the fat and reading some fine poetry … smiles.
Happy Open Link Night everyone!
I do have periods of time where I feel a lack of inspiration, and I generally solve that by writing anyway. I may throw away everything I have written, or I may only glean one good line from a page, but it usually takes me to a different place, and that is all I can ask for. Very often, the times when I felt I had nothing to say are the times when I am most pleased with the result. All that to say, I just keep showing up, and that seems to work best for me.
Looking forward to see you all out on the trails!
I know lots of writers do try to write every day … it’s not something I’ve managed to discipline myself into yet …
Hi Tony, thanks for hosting. In answer to the question, I write something every day. It seems to help me, especially when I don’t feel like writing, or when life is busy and crazy (which is a lot of the time lately).
Happy Open Link to all.
Pamela
Life’s busy here too … smiles. I’m wondering how I’ll ever find the time to have a job again one day … soon, hopefully
def hope you find that job soon man…i know that feeling when you are looking and its just not coming….pray for you often man….
Nice lead in, Tony. When I get a block, or a case of the Blaass, I just keep banging away until a new Muse appears, some image, some news item, some personal prejudice or belief–and then I start doing some research, scratching notes–many of which will not appear in the poem, but help steer me into the act of creation, the words, the work, the piece. I never tire of the conflict and the pride of seeing it through to the page.
Research – if you can’t write, then read. That’s definitely advice I’ve seen over and over … smiles
Hi Tony, nice to see you and thanks for hosting tonight’s OLN. I agree that all of us has had writers’ block at some point. My biggest reason for Writers’ Block is that I’m a perfectionist. It’s similar to what your calling ‘idealism.’ When I think too hard about what I’m gonna write about, I find myself stressing and then not writing. So let’s all just chill out and let our inner creativity flow. I’ll be by the pub later to drop a poem. That is, if I don’t get writers’ block. LOL
Hi Linda,
I wonder how many first drafts don’t get written because we can’t make them as good as published pieces. We easily forget the amount of effort that goes into rewriting, editing etc before the work hits the press. I suspect that the instant availability of the Publish button might be a hindrance too.
Writer’s block is something every writer experiences at one point or another, I guess. It is brutal and it is sometimes tormenting for me. But I tend to try get over it by reading, which is a good way to get inspired once again.
Lack of belief is the worst of them all, something that I’m dealing with right now. I’d look forward to others’ opinions regarding the same. May be I will be able to learn something in order to be self-confident.
Thanks for sharing this important situation in today’s post.
Coming and sharing with a community like this is often quite helpful. Also, you might find it good if you can find a mentor – someone who will take the time to show you both the weaknesses and strengths of your work. I’d like to find one of those … smiles.
I’d love to find one of those as well… sometimes we are overly critical of our creations and at such times… if there is some one to show us that there is something good hidden within those words, it would be quite better… 🙂
Tony, this is so topical.
For today’s post I am stringing bits together from some of last year’s poems. Trying to unify them with one idea. I am so fed-up with nothing original bubbling up in my brain. Maybe it will help.
Thank you and please pour me a mocktail 🙂
One mocktail coming right at you Aprille. Good to see you … smiles
Thanks for hosting, Tony, and for bringing up this issue of writer’s block. What helps me when I feel stuck is to go for a walk or turn to form poetry. The discipline of form gives me the structure I need to break out of my creative lethargy. Another device that I love is to select 10-20 random words from a dictionary or some other volume and see what they have to offer. There must be some sort of subliminal process at work because often the words fit together to produce a theme.
I will be back to read a bit tonight, and more tomorrow. Have fun everyone.
Hi Victoria,
Trying to channel our creativity in a different way – maybe writing prose, maybe picking up paints and brushes, or as you suggest, turning to the discipline of form poetry – can be a good way to break the shackles, for sure. Having restrictions in meter, rhyme and line length can force us to discover new ways of saying things.
Tony your words inspired me on a day when I felt unpoetic. Thank you!
Aww, shucks … smiles. Thanks for dropping by.
A poet, quite broke, who felt stuck
Had a muse that was running amuck.
So he got a large board
And some thick, heavy cord,
And then wrote: “Dreadful Verse for a Buck.”
… and then there are those people who just pour humorous verse onto the page in pefect limericks … smiles. Nice to see you, Madeleine
Thanks so much for that lovely compliment Tony!
Where’s everybody at today? Only 48 entries so far? Seems like there’s usually a hunnerd by now.
My entry is not any fun at all today. I had bad stuff on the brain, and couldn’t hold it in. Sorry bout that
Hey Charles, the bad stuff needs to be expressed too – simply seeing that someone else feels this way can help. Hopethings get better soon. Will be round to read once all the early customers have been served.
Now, what would you like to drink today?
Rum and coke! A double!
Coming right at you … smles
ha…we are in the last gasp of summer before school…so it might be a bit slower…good stuff out there on the trail..and i am sure once the sun goes down a few more might stumble in…intense verse today man…
I struggle with blocks too. Especially for poetry. I signed up for a song writing class at Coursera hoping that will inspire me. I think it has been several months since I posted any new poetry. I have one up on the blog I’m not crazy about, but in the spirit of getting unstuck and back writing again. I’ll share it tonight. Thanks for reminding me I’m not the only one battling the perfectionist demon.
Hi Nara,
I think we all struggle with that particular demon. However, I think the way to kill it is to rewrite and edit, not to give in and starve ourselves.
Maybe next time I’m stuck, I’ll remember my own advice, but probably not … smiles
haha physician, heal thyself….smiles.
Tony, you write about something much too familiar. Though I’m in that blocked space right now, I still wrote something. I love the suggestion to play more. Think I’ll do that.
If you’re anything like me, even playing can be a problem when my inner perfectionist takes over … smiles
hi Tony and everyone
thank you for hosting tonight, i’m pretty new at d’verse and new to writing poetry as well, less than 4 months now. although i’ve not experienced yet what you are with your writing, i did have that issue often when i painted. i empathize, completely.
happy reading everyone!
As someone in whose hands paint and brushes are a waste of at least one of them, I have nothing but admiration for people who can draw and paint; I wish I could but such talents as I may have definitely lie in other areas.
Hi everyone! I am for weeks secretly enjoying all the prompts, reading the Linky entries and discovering people thanks to you. I really wanted to make the second step and introduce myselg this time.
I love what you guys are doing, I wish to give a little bit more of my admiration to the regulars,before jumping in!
Hi Oloriel,
Can I encourage you to just jump in right now? Seriously. It’s what I did about 20 months ago, and I’ve never looked back ,,, smiles.
I am allready not looking back since when I first found this place, so don’t worry, you will be seeing me around 😀
very cool… nice to meet you.. maybe tony plays you a little welcome melody on the bag pipes…smiles
You were wanting them to stay, weren’t you Claudia? In that case, maybe not the pipes … smiles
and yeah…jumping right in is how it’s done best…smiles
Thank you for the warm welcome and those bagpipes sound like a great idea!:)
One question if I may, I have noticed from reading other people;s submissions that some are a few days old, does that mean we can participate in the sharing with something we allready posted recently, or does the piece need to be fresh from the keyboard quill?:)
absolutely no problem – can be an older piece as well
Great! After reading all the other entries first, you can expect my addition 😀
Thank you for the swift answer, I bet you guys get asked stuff like this all the times 🙂
very cool…welcome to the pub…have seen you show up in a few peoples comments and it is nice to finally meet you…
Thank you very much for the warm welcome!
I really live for commenting, it is so nice to find a place where people are interested in recieving comments and just talking sometimes. At times on WordPress I feel as tho people do not let me admire their work outside of the simple “Like” click, which feels fake and mechanic.
def not a fan of the like button…
and there are quite a few that would def appreciate the conversation
as with anywhere we have ours that link and leave
but it wont take long to figure that out…smiles
enjoyed your most recent poem….
Actually, it’s good to be reminded that we need to explain a little more for our new customers. Maybe next week’s OLN host could give a fuller explanation of what we do here on Tuesdays?
Post, then read. Most people struggle to read all the poems linked; all we ask is that you try to read some … smiles.
I always read them all, it is a pleasure for me! 🙂 The only thing I struggle with is leaving feedback to people on blogspot, it tends to be buggy for me most of the times:(
check, some of them may have the anon/url option open.
i do.
i know some think it keeps spam at bay but i have found the spam filter catches most…
Older is OK – it brings your work to the attention of new people … that’s got to be a good thing, right? Smiles again.
Glad to have you here, Oloriel!
Tony, Thanks for tending bar. Wish I could stick around and read some poetry, but I’m spending the day in a too-quiet room monitoring a special accomodation bar exam applicant, and reading “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking.” And since I’m not really an introvert, the quiet is driving me nuts! And yet, the poem I linked to today is called “Quiet.” The irony is never-ending today. Peace, Linda
As a major-league introvert – no, really – I love my peace and quiet, even if I then choose to fill it with familiar sounds.
that book sounds interesting.. generally i think we tend to talk too much and have un-learned to listen to others… will check out your poem tomorrow morning linda…
The book is great and I’m learning a lot from it, especially about the introverts I work with and live with. 🙂
ok – already 11pm over here…time to get some beauty sleep.. will be catching up with you tomorrow…
Schlaf gut, liebe Claudia … smiles (note to self; learn the German for he smiles)
er lächelt…. smiles
vielen Dank … ich lächle
hey…good job on the conjugating…. ich lächle, du lächelst, wir lächeln, er/sie/es lächelt – ha – it’s really not that easy….smiles
really not fair speaking in languages i dont understand…smiles.
sleep well c….
No, this one is a bit irregular.
Tony, I can really relate to this now… but I know my slack-off in writing is related to summer. One more month…
6 more days here…next Tuesday i will be back at work….ack!
I can’t believe it’s time for you to go back, Brian!
I’ve not really been writing long enough to know whether this is going to be my normal pattern or not; last year I was recovering from a major illness, and the summer before that I had barely begun writing poetry. I certainly wasn’t posting on my current blog … smiles
Look how far you’ve come, Tony… amazing. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
Tony, thanks for tending bar tonight. I am a bit late here in my commenting…and I would guess that you might not read this today, but hopefully will see it tomorrow. Smiles. I do try to write every day or two. Prompts do help, but I think it important that I also write ‘unprompted.’ I think it is hardest for me when I write something that I think is pretty good and something that receives a lot of positive from commenters as well. (Like the poem I wrote for Poetics on Saturday.) After that it is hard for me to sit down and write something else, like my poem for today….as I know it doesn’t come up to that standard (either in my eyes or in the eyes of others).
I wonder how others deal with this — following up after a ‘really good poem.’ (Compratively) Is it hard for others as well after you write what you think of as a good poem……one that is a tough act to follow???? Tony? Brian? Claudia? Grace? Lori? Victoria? Others?
Hi Mary, and welcome. I’ll have a think about this … have I written a successful poem? How do we measure success? … and get back to you in the morning.
i hear you…i think we feel like we have to measure up to that last poem…i tend to look at each on its own…its like comparing children you know…i do get the performance anxiety at times…someone told me once that 90% of what we write is crap, but we go through it for the 10%…and while that may seem pretty high on the crap side, its always encouraged me just to write and not worry…
now i do tweek and edit and make my crap smell better at times but…ha…its funny too because sometimes the ones i dont like, people wills ay it touched them in some way…so never underestimate yourself as well..once you let it go…who knows…smiles…
Yes you have written a successful poem called “Tread Softly” I have kept a copy of it. It is the only copy of another poet’s work I have made in two years . You are imposing very high standards on yourself. I think that is a good thing. Hardly anything that you write will ever reach that standard but this should not stop you from writing. Another problem is writing for an audience, self censoring because you think they wont like it , wont understand it or find it boring etc. If you do this you will find yourself writing for comments which means approval.The most important thing is that you the poet must get satisfaction from what you write. If it flows on to others then that is a bonus.You can choose to write about your toe nails, illnesses , the state of your sink cupboard – anything. For what it is worth I look forward to your form prompts. It is my favourite posting and I miss them . You have not done them for a while.
Wow – you’ve given me a huge honour there, Cressida. Thank you.
I wasn’t really fishing for compliments; it really was a genuine question. As you have said, a lot depends on how we define success; if we write for an audience (real or imagined) then that can change our writing habits, what we say, how we say it – we can end up not being true to our own poetic voice. I do try not to do that, but we all like to receive approval too … smiles
Thanks for the encouragement about the Form for All prompts; I’ve recently become part of that team here at dVerse, so there will be more … stop groaning Brian 🙂 If I’m right, then it’s Form for All tomorrow with Sam; he always brings an interesting challenge.
This would be a great topic for next Monday.
Interesting thought, Laurie.
you all always feed me good topics…smiles.
Thanks, Brian!! I really would be interested in what others experience in this area. Smiles.
Where are my manners today. I’m late popping into the pub. Thanks Tony for hosting today. Yes, I suffer from all you mention and can say after a hiatus it’s even more difficult to write rather than easier. I think it’s true writer’s write because they must and it is work, and one has to approach a blank page as a desk at work. Time to organize and get things done. I always appreciate my friends and colleagues here and it’s truly wonderful to have time to read your work again.
oh you had no problem today gay…smiles…nice poem…though we dont see the work you put into it on the back side….
It looks like one of the things I should try to do is to make a regular time and space to write – and then stick to that until it naturally becomes part of my routine.
dinner break here…be back in a bit poets….
OK poets – as the bartenders of many of Scotland’s pubs are politely ushering their customers out through the doors, I think it’s time for me to go and get some sleep. I’ll be back in the morning – UK time … smiles.
sleep well brother…
Finally home from work & soaking up some great writing! Great to be here–have missed you all the past couple of weeks!!
good to have you back ginny…smiles…
yep, it was me.
Hi, Ginny… happy to see you here, too.
All my favorite bartenders are in tonight! Forgive me for posting such a tiny bit from a few days back that some of you have read before.. I thought of it as part of why sometimes–rarely–I don’t write/live.
hiya susan…smiles.
Sorry for the double post if you ca nremove the first one #74 that would b great Cheers
i gotcha sam…
Thanks Brian
I tried a ghazal this week. it is not easy, but I will keep on trying. Plus, it is time to feel romance in the air…
oo la…romance is a good thing….smiles…radio star
-smiles-
By the way, for extra romance tonight:
L’amour peut vous casser, vous fait oublier la raison
Comme passion briser votre volonté et résistance
Love can break you, makes you forget reason
As passion breaks you, your will and resistance…
(All francophones – please forgive my basic French)
oh my…def all the more love…
i penned this little note in my notebook today:
in my checkbook, i find your face staring back
which gives me pause
wondering when i became
so rich.
ha, cheesy i know, but i will leave it on a post it note somewhere…smiles.
ah she will love it…smiles
The ghazal is fiendishly difficult – I remember really struggling when Sam brought that form to the Pub.
Tony, I feel like that person sitting in church whose face turns red as the sermon had to have been written just for them. Thanks for the encouragement to just write.
long as the hell fire and brimstone doesnt start i am fine…smiles…
Hey, Brian. I failed to mention in my comment on your poem that not only was it a wild ride, but one I very much enjoyed. I often find myself in awe when reading your work because the visceral and vivid imagery invariably leads to true truth (and yes, there is another kind). 🙂 And no brimstone will start flying as long as we stick to our own razors. :0)
I’ve been on both sides of that particular situation; rest assured that any honest preacher is preaching to themself first, and to the congregation next.
ouch…but true…
good morning…. coffee in hand and ready to read some poetry with my breakfast…
good morning claudia
good morning! Uh-oh, if it’s good morning for you, it should be goodnight for me. Night-night!
smiles…sleep well…
ha. was a good night here too…but back awake now…
off to work…will catch up in the evening…have a great day everyone
Hello Tony. Scotland is one of my favourite parts of the world and my G7 grandparents came from near Edinburgh, although my G7 grandfather, from Glasgow first. I adore Edinburgh, it is just gorgeous. Glasgow I have not seen but we drove over quite a bit of Scotland and I am not surprised that so many Scots emigrated to the part of South Australia I call home. Germans either. Funny how when you see the places from whence ancestors have come you realise they went looking for a bit of home wherein to settle. The Barossa Valley in South Australia is so like the Mosel Valley and the Germans in the 1840’s moved there in droves.
When the weather is good in Scotland, there really is nowhere better to live … OK, I’m biased – but in a good way … smiles.
I’d have thought migrant Scots would have found South Australia a bit too hot. As for people looking for a bit of home when they settle in a new country – there’s a part of Patagonia in Argentina where the people speak Welsh because that’s where their ancestors came from.
I guess one gets used to it. I am sure the hot summers beat the bitterly cold winters in Scotland. Like much in life, compromise. And it is dry heat which is much easier than the humidity you get in summer in the northern hemisphere or in the tropics. Meditteranean climate really.
Not so much a block as a lack of stillness.. mental and emotional.. in which to meet creativity and let the magic work. Yes, I’ve experienced that and have found that waiting it out is the answer. Thanks Tony and look forward to some great reading ahead.. 🙂
Hi D-Verse Team..ohm…
I mean friends!
Smiles right back @you!
After finishing commenting with all these beautiful people I finally move to the next post! You can’t imagine the writer’s block one finds after finding Oreo the Meaning of Life!
Quite a few keys for my next post…
but the first hint is in the first paragraph!
of this post all about writer’s block!
108 night ’tis IS 1! 2! K! too!
8012013…8 1 2K Thirteen…Infinity One Two Ka One Trinity!
What’s so special about 2013! Maybe Will Seas!
Starting at midnight of One August Night in 2013!
Wow1! this is like a Movie Trailer!
Now I really feel special!
Hehe1!
Oft times, my artistic block is related to my own misunderstanding of myself, of not knowing or not willing to look at all facets of my person, of hiding those parts of me that I do not want others to see…
Poem up, besser spät als nie 🙂 ~Jason
I tend to hide as well–not really ready for the virtual “full monty”
smiles… so you speak a bit of german jason…? very cool
ein bisschen, nür ein bisschen
i am going to start commenting in pig latin….smiles.
ol-lay 🙂
haha
Hi Tony–you are speaking right to me! I have been feeling uninspired mostly because I am tired, and when I sit to write, the words that come our make me hit delete (repeatedly). Many times I am inspired by other’s poetry, but a lot of times I’m so knocked out by other’s writing that my own dims by comparison. There’s A LOT of talent in this blogosphere and I love it, even if it makes me question my own abilities. However, the poem I posted today makes me happy–hope that others enjoy it as well 🙂
woot….good to see you…be over in a few min…
I would have commented earlier if not for the long long trip we had today. Anyway, this topic is very close to my heart since I am suffering from this so-called writer’s block. All of the above reasons are true for me. I often think that I am a pretender – I pretend to be a writer and a poet at that. 🙂 Thanks for this essay. 🙂
Hi folks,
Time to tidy up the bar and send the keys over to Sam in Canada. Thanks for the discussion – I think this is something we might be coming back to in the future.
As regards the following comment by someone called Mary:Interesting writing here, Scott; but I will be honest and say that I would prefer a shorter write for Open Link, as I don’t think I can do justice to such a lengthy write when I am trying to comment on many poems.” I must ask on who’s authority she censors? Regardless of the validity of her statement, or personal shortcomings, is Mary solely responsible for this site’s control of content?
just left a comment over at your site.. here’s the copy…
hey – just saw your comment over at dVerse.. and it’s good to talk openly…
first, to answer your question: mary is one of our pub tenders and she’s taking her responsibilities very seriously – i also appreciate her personally very much – she’s a fine, upright and honest friend. what she said in her comment was that she cannot do the write justice because of its length – that was not some kind of censorship, just an “i” message. you can really post poems of any length but you will find that not many people will take the time to read them. i think that it was nice of mary to leave you this message instead of just closing the window (which i think is what many others do if they’re overwhelmed by the length of a poem) as we all have just a certain amount of time for reading others available. and esp. as pub tenders, we want to visit as many different people as possible in the given time. does this explain it a bit?
apologies for linking in on the wrong night with the wrong poem. its been a wrong week. all the best to you all: cheers to the bar